He's going to be in for a wake up call for sure. My MIL and I have continued to puzzle over why he bought new/additional Christmas lights and decorations for outside this year.
I will not be decorating the house as he normally does at Christmas time. He will be taking all of that with him. (Except the blow up Santa! I want that!) if he thinks HE is coming over to decorate, which I know he does, he has another thing coming.
He also thinks (or thought anyway...maybe I've gotten through to him) that he is coming over here to do the yardwork and anything I might need around the house.
He Just. Doesn't. Get. It.
Why would he want to anyway? Does he seriously think OW would stand for that? Does he think she would go for us going to movies and football games together?
It exasperates me when I think about it. His idea of ending our relationship and what that is going to look like is SO unrealistic.