How does he react to it? Is he attentive or appear put off?
I did some of the same after my WW and I got some solid footing and started the road to R. For my WW, after a while, she found it not manly I guess, and would say so. I shot back it's your fault. I really only did it when I triggered or felt vulnerable. But, as we went on and my wife really learned how to help me, she knew this was due to triggers or a bad day. She now knows how to respond and help. Have you discussed this with your WH?
Now, as we move further into R, my WW is now doing the same. Asking if I ever feel like getting revenge. I know how to respond and help. Not robotically, but because I want to and I love her.
As a man, I love the extra attention and the emotional connection that comes with it. If your WH takes advantage of the opportunity and really communicates with you about his feelings, you can become closer than you ever thought possible, I believe.
And besides, he is your husband, you should be able to talk, touch, act and feel any way you want to and he supports you no matter what!