Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
He wants to spoil me this Valentine's Day but I don't know if I'm up to it.
I understand; that can be really tough this early into R. On the one hand, you know it would be good for R to start connecting again; on the other hand, who feels like celebrating anything when you're in so much pain.
I guess I would try to do my best to have fun and to remind myself I am doing this for R. Try to stay in the moment and go with the flow; although I know that is much easier said than done.
(((Sunset22))) So sorry for what you are going through.
[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 4:06 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)]
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.