SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

You are not logged in. Login here or register.

[Register]

Newest Member: LosingEverything (59353)

User

Topic: Broke N/C

Thelastknight
♂ 21851
Member # 21851

Posted: 7:40 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014

Well I broke NC today with xGF. Fuck I wish I would have kept my shit together. I guess im feeling a little needy today as I was on my way home from seeing my Attorney for my modification of visitation. I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it... This is the xGF who sent me the NYE txt...

TLK

"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2

Posts: 965 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW

Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349

Posted: 7:45 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014

We all have weak days.

Can you go back to NC now? If you're here it means you want support to shut it down.

Sending hugs.

(((Tlk)))

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

Harriet
♀ 34543
Member # 34543

Posted: 8:12 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014

I broke mine today, too. Only sort of, but I still wish I hadn't done it.
I'm right here with you. Back on the saddle for the both of us!

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 777 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California

heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
Member # 22722

Posted: 8:39 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014

Been there done that. It's like dieting. Sometimes you binge. Can't undo it. Just restart. NC NC NC

(((Thelastknight)))

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

Posts: 2061 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California

NaiveAgain
♀ 20849
Member # 20849

Posted: 8:48 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014

It's okay. We've all done it.

You were feeling bad and you needed the support today and we all have our vulnerable moments. Don't sweat it.

I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it.

You're allowed to feel sad and needy sometimes. I suspect you're human like the rest of us.

Hang in there and just keep moving forward....((((hugs))))

[This message edited by NaiveAgain at 8:49 PM, January 30th (Thursday)]

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 16236 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio

hangingonin
♀ 29530
Member # 29530

Posted: 1:28 PM, January 31st (Friday), 2014

((Last knight))
Just restart NC. As everyone has said we all do it.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK

Topic Posts: 6

Return to Forum

This Topic is Archived