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User Topic: Broke N/C
Thelastknight
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Member # 21851
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I broke NC today with xGF. Fuck I wish I would have kept my shit together. I guess im feeling a little needy today as I was on my way home from seeing my Attorney for my modification of visitation. I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it... This is the xGF who sent me the NYE txt...


TLK


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

Reformed BS 39 xWW 34
Two kids 5 and 2


Posts: 952 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: NW
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We all have weak days.

Can you go back to NC now? If you're here it means you want support to shut it down.

Sending hugs.

(((Tlk)))


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18694 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Harriet
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Member # 34543
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I broke mine today, too. Only sort of, but I still wish I hadn't done it.
I'm right here with you. Back on the saddle for the both of us!


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 565 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been there done that. It's like dieting. Sometimes you binge. Can't undo it. Just restart. NC NC NC

(((Thelastknight)))


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1254 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's okay. We've all done it.

You were feeling bad and you needed the support today and we all have our vulnerable moments. Don't sweat it.

I wish I would have stayed strong and just ignored it.
You're allowed to feel sad and needy sometimes. I suspect you're human like the rest of us. Hang in there and just keep moving forward....((((hugs))))

[This message edited by NaiveAgain at 8:49 PM, January 30th (Thursday)]


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15548 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
hangingonin
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Member # 29530
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Last knight))
Just restart NC. As everyone has said we all do it.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
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