Well LadyCody, if it helps any at all, most cheaters lie to their betrayed spouses, claiming it was 'only' an emotional affair. About 99.9% of us find out differently down the road that it was actually physical, so you're amongst friends here. If the affair parnters have any face-time together at all, the odds are extremely high that they didn't spend that time drinking iced tea and arguing about politics.
And yeah, most of them also claim they lied to 'protect' us. No, they lied to protect their OWN asses, not us. That's also pretty much a given.
Cheaters are nothing if mot predictable.
[This message edited by NeverAgain2013 at 9:32 AM, January 31st (Friday)]