So I haven't needed this site for a long time (yay me) but I have a question.
How long should transparency last? I had gotten to a place where I was good and trusted WH as much as I was probably going to until he started playing an on-line game on his phone.
I truly think (at first) it meant nothing. Just a way to fill his down time at work. He started playing it a lot and it seemed to be taking time away from his family. We'd had a couple disagreements about it and the time he was spending. I was suspicious so I checked his email and found that he emailed two separate women pictures of his time in Afghanistan. He was also receiving texts from a number in a different state.
After checking for a couple of weeks I finally confronted him. He was of course angry because I invaded his privacy. He said that he didn't think that I should be worried didn't seem to get why I would question him.
I haven't really found anything else but I'm concerned that he's gotten smarter about his activities.
Am I being unreasonable that I should still be expecting that I should have free access to his phone and game playing/ messaging apps?
I also think that he has been checking my phone but I can't be sure.
Sorry if there's typos I'm on my phone and its hard to edit.