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User Topic: A year later...
♀ 42287
Member # 42287
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just found this site & need an ear......and maybe a little advice.

Long story short, married 5 years w/2 boys. Found out he was cyber cheating, had a harem of what he called "random adds" on FB, was using Twitter but categorically denies having any physical relationships (even though he's had enough opportunities - classic coming home late & a local "random add"). He's ignored me, stonewalled attempts to talk about our problems/requests for marriage counseling. I was the maid, the roommate, the acquaintance....and the occasional booty call. After discovery he admitted to not wanting to get married and that he did it just to make me happy. Funny thing is, after almost a year "trying to work things out" and his lack of initiative (outside of stepping it up on help w/the boys & housework) he asks that we "try to focus on us" as soon as I mention separation/divorce. I've tried, for me, for us & our boys. I think I've reached my limit. I don't know if I have it in me to give it one more chance....

"This love stuff is a motherf$&@?!"
Samantha~ Sex In The City

Posts: 15 | Registered: Jan 2014
♀ 34353
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is sadly showing you who he is. Take his word on it and get out.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.

Posts: 1849 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
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