WH says I know everything and I mostly believe him. I'm just really curious why this guy thought they were having an affair. What was he seeing on his end that I wasn't, you know? I don't really have any idea what type of guy he is though, just what OW told WH. If it's true, he probably would go off on her.
I have his contact info and was thinking about emailing him something like, "hey, this is WH's wife. I have a couple questions I was hoping you could answer. Do you mind?" If he does or doesn't respond, then I'll leave it be?? If he seems like a normal guy, I'd really like to tell him he wasn't crazy, that they did have an inappropriate relationship.
Am I nuts? Should I just drop this?