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iamsoblind42 posted 2/3/2014 22:53 PM

So it's been a little over 3 weeks since DDay. Filed for separation and got our date/time today... 4/21/14 at 10 AM.

Just feeling like I don't have a single family member or friend that will understand but I know you all will so posting here as I need some support today.

Thanks in advance.

momentintime posted 2/3/2014 23:52 PM

I have been reading your posts, you have been so strong. It is okay to feel down since a date has been set. It is okay to mourn your loss of a relationship you thought was more.

We are all here to support you. We will lift you up when you are down. Just reach out to us. Tomorrow will be better.

MrsDoubtfire posted 2/4/2014 06:31 AM

Wow- you are so early on in this whole sorry nightmare.

It can overwhelm you but we are here.

You might not believe this right now but you will start to live again.... I don't know when that will be and won't pacify you with platitudes.

I just wanted you to hear it from someone who has been where you are.

We are here- always.

william posted 2/4/2014 06:46 AM

we are both so new that i dont feel comfortable offering advice. but i do want you to know that i am here and i feel your pain and you have my support!

shatteredapart posted 2/4/2014 08:25 AM

{{IASB42}} You're not alone. You have all of us and we're here for you always. I hope today finds you in a better place.

yearsofpain25 posted 2/4/2014 09:35 AM

Hey Blind, was thinking about you today. How are you feeling?

StillStanding1 posted 2/4/2014 13:43 PM

Hey there, iamsoblind,

You have been attacking all of this so fast and hard, I'm sure you haven't had much of a chance to really absorb it all.

Even though you know you are pursuing the right course of action for yourself, you will certainly have moments of regret and sadness, confusion and disillusionment, loneliness, all that. It's totally normal. No matter if he devastated you, there is still a history you have together and it's hard to wrap your mind around all of it, given your new reality.

Be gently with yourself. It's okay to be down or sad. You need to grieve what you lost. It's part of the process. Don't beat yourself up for it.

You are doing great. This is an excruciatingly difficult trauma to get through. Be kind to yourself.

How are your DS and DD doing?

AndreaL posted 2/4/2014 15:54 PM

I just wanted to say I understand how you feel. I feel alone in this, just sucks. I'm 2 months into DDAY and each day, I feel a new emotion. Is this really my life? Just wanted to say I have been reading your posts, and you are incredibly strong.

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