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User Topic: "Lightbulb moment" SI peeps- you will never leave me/us.
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Member # 24786
Happy  Posted: 6:50 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where else could you get advice, a hug, a telling off and a sympathetic ear from someone who has not only walked a mile in your shoes but has carried you on their shoulder whilst doing so?

On here people have made me laugh, cry, pull my hair out.... vomit (yes you know who you are spider picture posting people over there in FnG )

In the early days I used to post here in the middle of the night... drunk (occasionally); emotionally wrecked and screaming at my laptop at times!

I may have even posted on Christmas and definitely posted on New Year's Eve when the world was all happy and merry and I wanted to slit my throat into my supper

I have used profanity and I have posted inappropriately in the wrong forum (a long time ago now... now I double check to make sure whether I am in R or General ...mostly )and incurred the wrath once of DS for doing so (sorry DS xx).

I have laughed at some of the idiotic things your FWS's have said and I have gotten angry on your behalf at the hurtful way some of your family as well as spouses have acted towards you.

I have wanted to commit murder too for you at times! Both towards your WS's AND towards the OP's. I guess I am thankful my imagination has more balls than I do in real life really as orange jumpsuits would not suit me

I have come here when I have been bereft and when I have been buoyed and not once have I ever posted something that has not had at least one reply (guess there's always a first time but don't make it now )

On here I seen the colour purple and just know; "These guys get me! They get my situation! They get what I am feeling and what I have been through and who I am at my core!"

Knowing all that- you are still here day after day after day.

I guess I just wanted to post a little happiness in here and say thank you

To the newbies my hope is to build you up and help you realise we are all standing together for you and when you fall down there are thousands of us willing to pick you up, dust you off and set you on your feet once more.

To the oldtimers- I aim to keep learning from you and will keep that rocking chair well oiled so you can sit and preach in comfort

And to those who hate slushy posts? Jog on and go check out the orrid spider posts over in Fun and Games as there's nothing more to see here

BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

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♀ 39803
Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Mrs. Doubtfire))
You made me tear up! I am grateful for this place, too.

me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

Posts: 3389 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To the oldtimers- I aim to keep learning from you and will keep that rocking chair well oiled so you can sit and preach in comfort

Thanks. I can't say that my preaching isn't approaching the level of babbling as I age, but I still enjoy rocking in the chair and watching.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 54369 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto for me!! I really don't know what I would have done if I hadn't found this place. It has really been a lifesaver for me.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 876 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, February 4th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


What a great post to read!! I think our community here is the best online in dealing with infidelity. You all are so educated and patient and loving...its no wonder why so many stay to help the newbies

Thank you for reminding us all on just how great it is here!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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