him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel
- an agreement on what constitutes proper and healthy boundaries and agreement on what the consequences are for violating those boundaries (divorce).
- removing all toxic people from our lives who either supported, condoned, permitted, or encouraged her affairs. removing everyone who has heard so much crap about me (the bs) that they view our marriage in a very skewed way. removing everyone that isnt a friend of our marriage.
- agreement that any facts that subsequently come to light later that substantially contradict her stories (she used TT) will result in a divorce. agreement to a polygraph at a later point to verify her answers.
- IC counseling for us both. MC for us both.
those were some of my "needs".
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
That's not guaranteed to work, but it might prevent TT ('trickle truth').
No lip service, if he says he's going to do something, do it.
But your list is spot on. I just copied and pasted it in my journal! Thank you!