Instead when I turned 30 I had a wonderful husband who I had lied to and cheated on, and was seperated from, was living with my parents cuz of the A, and had one wonderful child, and a job I was in danger of losing because of my A. All of the plans i had had were ruined because of my own bad decisions and selfishness.
Today, I turned 31. I am happy to say although we don't own our own home, I have a wonderful husband and a beautiful daughter, and now have a career that not only do I love, but I am not in danger of losing. I just celebrated with my husband and daughter, and we ate the cake that they bought and decorated together for me.
Its amazing the difference one year makes. Today, rather than focusing on the plans i had in the past, I am focusing on both the present and the future, and am so grateful for what I have and who I get to share my life with!
This year I will turn 33 and things are back on track (albeit years behind due to my selfishness and stupidity).
Here's to all of us building better futures!
Divorced from and remarried to XBH
Keep working on you, and the rest of your life will fall into place.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.