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neverwantedaWW posted 2/4/2014 20:47 PM

Scab pulled. WW pretended she did not know about her boy toy coworker moving closer to us. I specifically asked. She said no. Google maps has her car parked in front of his house. Clear as day. Granted picture was taken in 2011 two months prior to DD, but come on now. Have yet to disclose my new info to her. Think I may wait until we are in CC next time. I suggest that if you have the AP address, Google map it and look at street view. This so sucks 2 plus years out.

ZedLeppelin posted 2/4/2014 21:59 PM

What is CC? Counseling?

Don't confront if this is a deal breaker for you. You owe her nothing now.

Go see a lawyer and file for divorce. It is a long process, and in that time you can see whether your WS is truly remorseful and consequently stop the process.

Her getting served with divorce papers will be a bigger wake up call than any confronting you do.

BAB61 posted 2/4/2014 23:15 PM

I believe CC is Couple's Counseling, correct? So another lie has come to light. smh ... sorry for this. TT is never easy to deal with. WS's are completely stupid about just coming clean and telling the truth. ((neverwantedaWW))

I think talking about it in CC may be a good idea, but ZedLeppelin has a point, if this is a deal-breaker for you, start the D proceedings.

neverwantedaWW posted 2/5/2014 00:10 AM

What is CC? Counseling? Yes you are cored Zed.

neverwantedaWW posted 2/5/2014 00:12 AM

Agree Bab. Time to drop a big hammer. Will keep you all posted. Thanks so much for your feedback.

stronger08 posted 2/5/2014 01:49 AM

The A did not doom my M, my XWW and her need to lie and keep secrets did. Once they get in the habit of lying its almost impossible for them to stop. And if they are capable of lying right to your face, they are capable of having another A. I decided that I could not live with a person who thought so little of me, that she would lie about something that was so obvious. You cant spend the rest of your life being her warden. She needs to want to change and no matter what she says to the contrary liars have no place in R. I think you have a major decision to make my friend.

shiloe posted 2/5/2014 08:53 AM

Question: Google map it?

You must be using a GPS on her car?

Google maps are not real time.

neverwantedaWW posted 2/5/2014 13:05 PM

Thanks everyone. Shiloe, if you Google an address, then switch to street view, you will see a picture of the street. It just happened that the Google picture truck was driving by the day WW car was there in front of AP house.

Brandon808 posted 2/5/2014 13:16 PM

WW pretended she did not know about her boy toy coworker moving closer to us. I specifically asked. She said no.
So is this something you recently asked her about after discovering this on Google Earth? Do you think she kept it secret that OM moved closer because she might still be in contact with him?

RealityStinks posted 2/5/2014 13:58 PM

The A did not doom my M, my XWW and her need to lie and keep secrets did.

^^^^ +1

Just a heads up, when you show her the picture of her car, unless it is customized or the picture has the license plate, she'll deny it. Be prepared.

I just caught my WW with the OM two days ago. I saw him and touched him with my own eyes and hands, and she's still trying to make me think I'm crazy.

So, if a WS can deny it when you catch them together with the AP, your WW can certainly come up with something for a three year old picture on Google maps. I personally think it is damning evidence, but then again, I'm not crazy (unless you ask my WW )

forwardfromhere posted 2/5/2014 19:07 PM

RealityStinks I am so sorry. What a horrible experience to have to defend yourself against stupid accusations of insanity. Why can't they just say 'yeah I was an I don't know so I'm going to give us both space until I do?' Guess that would be a have the cake but don't eat it scenario.

nuance posted 2/5/2014 19:13 PM

just happened that the Google picture truck was driving by the day WW car was there in front of AP house.

What are the odds? This should have happened very often for the google car to pick it up. Now she'll tell that was the only day...

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