I hate the idea that he will be giving OW a card. Although he will probably give me one too, even though he wants to separate. Idk. Maybe he won't.
Either way, I'm already having anxiety about it.
I'm doing the same thing I do every year for Valentine's Day. I'm going to buy myself some chocolate covered strawberries, the milk, dark and white chocolate kind.
Hell I may even go and buy myself a whole bunch of flowers too since they will be dirt cheap!
Having a horrible, triggery time with Valentines this year.... it just sucks. I really like the idea of buying a sweet and some flowers for myself. Maybe I'll even get a card for myself. One that says I love you, and you're wonderful etc. Because I am, and WE ARE, all of us. And if ever there was a time to love ourselves, this is it.
Thanks for the idea, SL!
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords