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finally got a time line and have questions regarding the truth of some of it--is it ok to contact the other bs to confirm it? Last time I spoke with him was a couple weeks after dday when we were comparing notes.

What is the status of NC with your WH and the OW?

It's been a long time since you contacted the OBS... so I'm reticent to encourage you to open things back up with that side of the world. That being said, apart from a polygraph it's pretty hard to know when we're finally getting the truth.

How did the notes-comparing go the last time?

Def has been nc -work changed their schedules so they do not work together or see each other at all. All contact with him has been positive. We had many days of talking, more so him asking questions. He actually got more information from me bc she continued to lie and probably is still lying to him and wh knew divorce papers would show up if he didn't fess up to everything.