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User Topic: Timeline question
♀ 41377
Member # 41377
Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

finally got a time line and have questions regarding the truth of some of it--is it ok to contact the other bs to confirm it? Last time I spoke with him was a couple weeks after dday when we were comparing notes.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Nov 2013
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is the status of NC with your WH and the OW?

It's been a long time since you contacted the OBS... so I'm reticent to encourage you to open things back up with that side of the world. That being said, apart from a polygraph it's pretty hard to know when we're finally getting the truth.

How did the notes-comparing go the last time?

"And above all things, never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning."
- I. Asimov

Posts: 25503 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
♀ 41377
Member # 41377
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Def has been nc -work changed their schedules so they do not work together or see each other at all. All contact with him has been positive. We had many days of talking, more so him asking questions. He actually got more information from me bc she continued to lie and probably is still lying to him and wh knew divorce papers would show up if he didn't fess up to everything.

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