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 CantLoseHope (original poster member #42356) posted at 12:35 AM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

Even though I have unconsciously started my "180". After having it recommended to me by several people I have read and will start my "180". Thanks to all of you for your support and hearing me. Again I am still struggling and all comments and advice are very much appreciated.



"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

The 180 is really hard at first, but it gets easier with time. Don't beat yourself up if you slip, and remember that you're doing it to build your strength and protect yourself.

(((CantLoseHope)))

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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 CantLoseHope (original poster member #42356) posted at 1:06 AM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

ive just discovered something that is probably going to make it a whole lot easier



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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 4:00 AM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

Additional info "something" ?

I hope not.

Do the best 180 you can. The strength you gather will be huge in rebuilding your self-esteem and your life going forward.

(((hugs)))

Hope you are ok....

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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 CantLoseHope (original poster member #42356) posted at 4:12 AM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014

Yes KARMAHAPPENS, if you look under general my post is entitled "new discovery and ive lost it"

and I truly have lost it, I've never felt this type of pain before ever even after he cheated on me....

read that topic and you will see more. and please feel free to reply to that topic.... i need all the help i can get.



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