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User Topic: Here's my Facebook movie! Find yours at . . .
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Erm . . . . no thanks. There's some stuff I'd rather not be re-living, if it's all the same to you.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6968 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
7yrsflushed
♂ 32258
Member # 32258
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah I saw that and wondered if all the pictures I deleted and info I removed would still be there. Figured I wouldn't take the chance and just left it alone. I removed and deleted that stuff with quickness and purpose as I systematically removed the STBXWW from my life after the decision to D. It would suck to see that stuff scrolling across the screen again. I won't even click on friends movies just in case she was tagged in stuff on their movies.


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 1941 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
shatteredapart
♀ 41978
Member # 41978
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agreed! I actually made another fb page after dday and only my closest friends and family have access to it. I just can't look at what happened there during 2013 without being smacked in the face that my "reality" was based on a lie.


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 123 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know, after I posted this, I actually went and looked at mine. For whatever reason, there were NO pictures posted from any of the "bad" times. It was mostly just pictures of my daughter (I'm a total facebook STFU Mom). It was nice. I didn't share it though, I figure I flood my friends with enough Baby Green pics anyway.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6968 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
myeverafter
41012
Member # 41012
Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was hard enough when they had "a year in pictures" or something like that at the end of 2013. Thank God, OW and none of her family were in the pictures, but they were at several places when I had taken the pictures of my kids. (If that makes sense.) There is no way, I am doing my Facebook movie.


Me - BW 35
Him - fWH 37
D-Day: 7/13
2 yr EA; 8 mo PA.

Posts: 86 | Registered: Oct 2013
TattoodChinaDoll
♀ 34602
Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend of mine posted how he finds it hilarious to watch all te videos and see the most liked posts were all about engagements or weddings and how all of them are now divorced. I commented that my most liked post was when I had finally hit the 50 pounds lost mark and asked if anyone wanted to go to Chipotle. My brother then commented that his most liked picture was a canned whole chicken. I did mine because I'm a glutton for punishment I guess. One picture it chose was the first ultrasound of DD#2. That one hurt a bit after this second miscarriage. But nothing too bad.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1736 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JG, I had the same thing. I anxiously previewed the movie, waiting to see STBXH or XBFF, but they never showed (phew). My favorite post was my boys raving about their new schools in our post d-day move. So it turned out to be an ode to our new lives.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 2089 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
2married2quit
♂ 36555
Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did mine... couldn't help seeing the pics of May 2012 while the A was active. Looked at myself and felt sorry for the poor bastards (me). But hey, life goes on. I'm a stronger person now. The song is a tear jerker though. Well maybe because I'm post A and am still fragile.


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1446 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
turtle72
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I hadn't looked at mine. Trigger city. For both ddays.

First photo was from a picture of my kids taken in 2008 during a picture perfect family vacation with WH#1. We returned home talking about how we had never been happier. He slept with the MOW for the first time the next day.

All the rest were of WH#2, our wedding and our kids. Shiny happy faces. I showed it to WH#2 and he welled up.


Me: 41 BS/WW/BS
2 kids 9 & 11, 3 steps 20, 8 and 3
BS 1st DDay 10/14/08, 5 mo. PA w/ MOW
WW 2nd D-Day 3/22/10, my exit A with HS BF
Separated 4/19/10
Married H #2 10/8/11
BS latest Dday 12/28/13 - PA w/ single COW

Posts: 2207 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Massachusetts
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was beautiful. Made me cry to see the wonderful moments that occurred while I was in the middle of madness & despair.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10137 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
dead_inside
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Member # 3438
Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine had pictures of wine, and pictures of my cats. LOL. Needless to say, I did not share it.


Me: FORMER BW
Him: WXH


Posts: 756 | Registered: Feb 2004
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was crazy to see how much my kids have grown and changed, and there were no triggers in mine.
(And yes I still trigger rarely at 5 yrs out)

It made me happy to a couple pics of furbabies that have crossed the rainbow bridge as well.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8889 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Luckily (?) FWH's affair was before I joined FB so all my stuff is in recovery. But mine was kind of lame! I was sadz.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6693 | Registered: Jan 2011
Chefj9
♀ 38604
Member # 38604
Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I actually enjoyed mine. I have been on FB for over 6 years and the vast majority was my girls or actually about me. My most liked post were 2 major life changing moments for me, both positive.... The first was my announcement of getting accepted to culinary school and the other was when I was chosen as a judge for a world food championship... Very little of H, since he was never here. The pictures that included him were recent so it didn't trigger me thank goodness. My husband didn't get to make his since his he deleted his old FB account and created a new one with a different name. His is just a few months old and has no real history.

If he had been on his old account, I'm sure it would be have been a HUGE trigger. Glad he killed that account.


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
obliquestrat
♂ 42165
Member # 42165
Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was brutal.


ME: BS 36 - HER: WS 33
TOGETHER: 2001 - MARRIED: 2008 - KIDS: 2 (3 and 1)
D-DAY: 1/6/2014 (accidentally discovered 3M EA which had developed into sexting, makeouts, tickets for biz trip to Disneyworld)
R, IC, MC, NC (coworker)

Posts: 109 | Registered: Jan 2014
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry oblique


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6968 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Lovedyoumore
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Member # 35593
Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have not yet. One question. How do you remove pics that have you tagged? There are some of OW and H at functions that were put up by someone else. I cannot get those to permanently go away.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1611 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was okay, I had a lot of pictures of the boys and posts of hospital updates for my sickie. My SIL's was a little sad, it had a lot of my precious nephew (good!) but it also showed the post announcing the impending birth of baby 2 in January 2014. That baby was lost in the first trimester.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
Tickingtock
♀ 41411
Member # 41411
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have not yet. One question. How do you remove pics that have you tagged? There are some of OW and H at functions that were put up by someone else. I cannot get those to permanently go away.

YOU have no control over the tagging but your husband can un-tag himself by going to the photo. Only OW and whomever posted the original pic can un-tag her.

But if you both block her then you won't be able to see any pic she's tagged in.


Posts: 242 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: West Coast, USA
20Hopeful16
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Member # 40487
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, February 6th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have avoided this like crazy. Having to go through pictures to find some for DD's family celebration project was enough torture for me.


Me: BS (39)
Three Beautiful Children 12,9,5
DD: 8/24/13
Heading for divorce
Moving on with life

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