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simplydevastated posted 2/6/2014 13:39 PM

When I found my husband's online dating account on AFF (he has seven), I also found my BIL, his middle brother, on the same site. Thank god the picture was of his face

Anyway... I was reading my husband's nephew's twitter timeline (he has posted things about my husband in the past so I periodically check it) and what did I find? His nephew posted that he found his father's okcupid.com account. That's my husband's eldest brother. Guess what else? He's married. Shocker...

So all three of the brothers are on online dating sites and two of them are married.

MovingUpward posted 2/6/2014 13:55 PM

Sounds like there is lots of FOO issues there.

simplydevastated posted 2/6/2014 14:33 PM

The stories I could tell... To sum it up, they ALL have that victim mentality.

nowiknow23 posted 2/6/2014 16:01 PM

((((sd))))
((((nephew))))

Vulcanized posted 2/6/2014 16:39 PM

That's really messed up.

Jrazz posted 2/6/2014 16:40 PM

Gross. Hopefully, if there's anything to gain from this, it's a reminder that this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his dysfunction.

(((sd)))

simplydevastated posted 2/6/2014 16:52 PM

Thanks everyone.

Vulcanized, yes, it's really messed up.

Jrazz, I know it has nothing to with me, this is my BIL. He's wicked arrogant.

The only thing I'm struggling with is should I tell his wife? She's been a total bitch to me and my husband. The right thing would be to tell her, but I like not having that family in my life.

I haven't even decided if I should tell my husband. I can only imagine how that conversation would go.

whattheh posted 2/6/2014 17:00 PM

If you don't want a hassle but want her to know maybe there's a way you can anonymously point her towards the hookup profiles?

Skan posted 2/6/2014 17:31 PM

Create a new untraceable email address (google it) and forward the links for all of the brothers to their wives. No more drama for you!

simplydevastated posted 2/6/2014 19:43 PM

I feel that I would need more evidence if I was going to do that. I went out to the website and you have to be a member to view profiles. I didn't want to set up a fake account. I did that enough back when I first found out about my husband.

There's only the one wife. It's the three brothers. The eldest, middle, and my husband. The nephew is the son to the eldest brother from his first marriage. My husband thinks his first wife was cheating on him, but he never told his brother. The middle brother had a girlfriend a while ago, but she left him. He's not in a relationship now. Just knowing him I'd be surprised if he would ever be in a relationship again.

Jrazz posted 2/6/2014 20:58 PM

I know it's your BIL - I just meant that your H is cut from the same cloth as your WH, and it's yet another indicator that he comes from brokentown.

simplydevastated posted 2/7/2014 07:47 AM

I'm sorry. I misunderstood.

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