Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
As gently as I can say this...
I agree with the other posts...how can you even consider marrying someone who proposes 2 months after you catch him cheating?
I think you need to ask yourself why he even asked you to marry him to begin with? To make sure you didn't leave him?
As worried_lady said - have a VERY long engagement please! As in...2-5 years. They say it takes AT LEAST this long to recover from his affair, AND that's IF he is fully committed to recovery, which by his actions towards you, I would say he is definitely not fully committed at this time.
You stated that he worked with the other woman? Do they still work together?
Do you have full access to his email passwords?
Cell phone bill?
Does he have a password on his cell phone?
Are you guys in couples counseling?
Is he seeing a therapist on his own?
Read this post by wincings_sparkle and ask yourself if your fiance is doing ANY of this. In fact, print this out and tell him to read it!!
You deserve so much more than what he's giving you. Don't settle and marry this guy until you are sure he's done everything he can to prove to you he's worthy.
Together 9 years
DDay: June 24, 2013