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User Topic: "thank you but no thank you" phrase?
I think I can
♀ 17756
Member # 17756
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My mom has started dating again. She has had two dates with a guy and wants to say thank you but no thank you. What should she say? I know not to list anything "wrong" with him. Any handy catchphrases?

Thanks!


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

Posts: 9045 | Registered: Jan 2008
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Thank you for the opportunity to get to know you. However, I do not feel we are a match and it would be best to move on. I wish you the best of luck in your search. Regards....."


Short, sweet and to the point.


If you want them to quit stabbing you in the back, then quit handing them the knife.

Posts: 15100 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
cmego
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I generally say,

"I appreciate you asking me out, but I'm not interested in taking this any further. Good luck in your search."

or

"Thanks for texting me, sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I've enjoyed getting to know you, but I'm just not "feeling this". I wish you good luck in finding someone special".

^^^or some variance of "Thanks, but no thanks"


me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced


Posts: 4613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yep, what they said.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 3195 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
I think I can
♀ 17756
Member # 17756
Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Perfect. Thanks!! I'm sending this to mom now!


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

Posts: 9045 | Registered: Jan 2008
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