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I think I can posted 2/7/2014 14:45 PM

My mom has started dating again. She has had two dates with a guy and wants to say thank you but no thank you. What should she say? I know not to list anything "wrong" with him. Any handy catchphrases?

Thanks!

lieshurt posted 2/7/2014 14:53 PM

"Thank you for the opportunity to get to know you. However, I do not feel we are a match and it would be best to move on. I wish you the best of luck in your search. Regards....."

Short, sweet and to the point.

cmego posted 2/7/2014 14:54 PM

I generally say,

"I appreciate you asking me out, but I'm not interested in taking this any further. Good luck in your search."

or

"Thanks for texting me, sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I've enjoyed getting to know you, but I'm just not "feeling this". I wish you good luck in finding someone special".

^^^or some variance of "Thanks, but no thanks"

nutmegkitty posted 2/7/2014 15:38 PM

yep, what they said.

I think I can posted 2/7/2014 18:53 PM

Perfect. Thanks!! I'm sending this to mom now!