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Topic: So I have a date on V-Day...
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hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 |  Posted: 8:28 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014 |     |
So I have a date on Valentine's day... but it's not a valentine's day date. I had coffee with a guy from Match a couple of weeks ago. We both have been travelling for business. He gets back in town Thursday. Here was our convo:
Him - "You want to get together Thursday?"
Me - "I can't, I have a poker game. How about Saturday?"
Him - "I have a BBQ on Saturday... Umm... would it be too weird if we did it on Friday?"
We were both trying to avoid Friday because we're certainly not "Valentines." We decided to hit a Happy Hour for a couple of drinks and some appetizers, as we didn't want a restaurant on V-Day.
However, we're both like "Right, I'm not forcing a V-Day date." "Me neither, sorry. I want to hang out and this is the soonest we both can."
Also I historically have terrible V-Days... hope this changes it.
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15452 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
newnormal
♀ 21925
Member # 21925 |  Posted: 7:06 AM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
That's so funny! I trigger over v day and I wondered how a conversation like that might go. Sounds like you both handled it well.
BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 7:12 AM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
I hope it's a good date. 
In the spirit of it not being a v-day date, I could recommend not focusing on this:
Also I historically have terrible V-Days... hope this changes it.
as it's an awful lot of pressure for a first date.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14049 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
I.will.survive
♀ 34677
Member # 34677 | | Posted: 8:12 AM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Oh I think that's awesome you're willing to go out on Valentine's day! Maybe it hints that you both don't take everything too seriously. Could be fun!
I filed for divorce last Valentine's day.  [This message edited by I.will.survive at 8:13 AM, February 8th (Saturday)]
Posts: 562 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast |
healingtree
♀ 15467
Member # 15467 | | Posted: 9:39 AM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Valentines Day....
Just remind yourselves it is Friday, the day between Thursday and Saturday. And it is good that you are both busy, and also making time to meet.
Secretly, though, are you wishing he would bring you a flower or something?
hmmm....
FBS 1st D-day 7-11-07, 2nd DDay Post-Breakup in 8-12
HIM - Doesn't Matter Anymore
The only thing we can change about the past is how we look at it.
Posts: 8345 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Here and Now |
hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 | | Posted: 2:08 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014 | |
@Amazonia - it's not a first date, it's a second date.
@healing - no.
ETA: My bad V-Days generally have nothing to do with who I'm dating, it tends to be stuff like my car will break down or my favorite shoes will lose a heel, that kind of thing. [This message edited by hurtbs at 3:08 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15452 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 8:22 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014 | |
lot of pressure for a second date too 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14049 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
Vulcanized
♀ 33523
Member # 33523 | | Posted: 3:40 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014 | |
Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.
Posts: 836 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania |
damncutekitty
♀ 5929
Member # 5929 | | Posted: 8:49 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Valentine's day was only maybe my third or 4th date with my SO.
Keep calm and carry on.
Posts: 49483 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis |
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