For me, yes. Even in the midst of current personal struggles and constant arguing atm, yes. After years of lying, hurt, pain, yes. After public humiliation, yes. After him losing his job, and other things... leaving me to raise kids & keep us afloat, yes. Dealing with the aftermath & shame of it all, yes. Have to go thru the pain one way or another & I'd rather go thru it with him by my side helping me / us heal. Not easy and not always what I want, but we are struggling to try to make it work. I'm hanging in there for the chance to make something beautiful out of an awful broken thing. We are committed to reconcile, however awful & ugly it might be at times.
That being sad, it's worth it to me in my situation. But I would never say what it is worth it for you. Each situation is unique and only you know your husband/ marriage. I share all my junk to say that nothing is too terrible that it can't be reconciled, if that's the decision you and your husband make together. If it's your reality you choose to live out... Hard decision I know. :(
I have my own...would never say it is easy, but it is worth it.
[This message edited by itstoomuch at 8:44 PM, February 26th (Wednesday)]