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Topic: Where does betrayal start

Concused6773
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Posted: 11:11 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014

I was never a swinger and not am I but did participate a time or two. Not happy with that choice. I finally said.... I can't do this.... It's not my thing... So they knew if we hung out it wasn't going to be that activity. Well... Wife strongly encouraged me and hubby to go play and have sex. When you are drinking you go with the flow (no excuse).. Before actually sex I made him go ask again... She sys "yes.... It's fine... Go ahead" and more than once.. At this point Is this an affair????

Posts: 8 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Lost

authenticnow
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Posted: 7:30 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014

Concussed, I'm not sure what you're struggling with. It seems the wife is okay with this, but you're here questioning it so, are you?

You start with 'I'm not a swinger', and then you had sex with another woman's husband, with her permission.

So...if you're comfortable with this, what's the issue? If you're uncomfortable with this lifestyle, stay away from this couple. Get new friends who aren't living this lifestyle.

“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

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