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Concused6773 (original poster new member #42305) posted at 5:11 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
I was never a swinger and not am I but did participate a time or two. Not happy with that choice. I finally said.... I can't do this.... It's not my thing... So they knew if we hung out it wasn't going to be that activity. Well... Wife strongly encouraged me and hubby to go play and have sex. When you are drinking you go with the flow (no excuse).. Before actually sex I made him go ask again... She sys "yes.... It's fine... Go ahead" and more than once.. At this point Is this an affair????
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 1:30 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
Concussed, I'm not sure what you're struggling with. It seems the wife is okay with this, but you're here questioning it so, are you?
You start with 'I'm not a swinger', and then you had sex with another woman's husband, with her permission.
So...if you're comfortable with this, what's the issue? If you're uncomfortable with this lifestyle, stay away from this couple. Get new friends who aren't living this lifestyle.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
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