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Valentine's Day week

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 sheila0304 (original poster member #25041) posted at 4:16 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014

Wake me when it's over.

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 4:41 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014

My ex never made it a big deal anyway…nothing special to me. I just try and make it fun for my kids.

I doubt it will ever be special to me again…it is just a silly holiday.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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justabrokendream ( member #3075) posted at 5:06 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014

Glad I don't have to buy a card or feel obligated to anyone.....

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I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 5:58 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014

I agree! Probably because my break up is still fresh and I still love the man. Booo.

But instead of being romanced and enjoying spoiling someone else, I'll be in the Walmart Valentine's day aisles searching for the perfect pack of class Valentines a first grade boy would want to hand out.

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 1:51 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

He never "remembered" Valentine's Day. So each year I would buy myself and then share with him and the kids a whole bunch of chocolate covered strawberries! This year, I don't have to share.

I'm going to get myself a whole bunch of pretty flowers and put them in all of the vases around the house and decorate for me! Well, the cats will enjoy them too!

I'm thinking I might even pick myself up a cute, flirty nightie. Kit cats will enjoy that too when they snuggle up to Mami!

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:57 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

Don't oversleep for Saturday is International 50% off chocolates in heart shaped containers day. (see my PSA in F&G )

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PhoenixRising88 ( member #35214) posted at 2:25 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

I myself never really cared for Valentine's Day...like one day of someone NOT being an ass is supposed to counter the other 364 in the year...

Then again, 'jaded' is one of the current personality traits on my list of shit to work on in IC...

Me: BS(45)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(52). D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/13. Divorced 1/10/14.

New chapter of my life- married 11/13/15 to the man I'd thought I would never find.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.

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PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

I honestly don't recall one V-Day while married. So I guess they were all not worth remembering. Which is fitting since my ex is too

Countdown to: International 50% off chocolates!!

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littlefoggy ( member #41429) posted at 3:01 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

Looking forward to some cheap chocolate.

Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:40 AM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 1:53 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!

Now that I can get behind! I'm so not a chocolate person but I looooove champagne!

I, too, want this week to be over. I'm so sick of all the stupid, drippy jewelry commercials!!!!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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Weatherly ( member #18222) posted at 4:21 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

My best friend's bf (who was living with her!) told her about 4 months ago that he had a new gf and a new job and TX and he'd see her around. It's been a hard few months, and she has a 2 yr old and a 12 yr old.

So...she is my Valentine's Day date. We're getting dressed up fancy and going out to dinner. Aussie's "date" is her 2 yr old daughter and the McDonald's play place. We're celebrating the day, but, not together and not exactly conventional.

I will probably be participating in 1/2 price chocolate day though!

Me-33 ,Two boys, 13 and 14

It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end

Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.

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dignityintact ( member #32558) posted at 7:43 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

It's a pretty annoying event, in my humble opinion.

No big deal for me - was with the ex for 20 years, I can't remember a single romantic thing he ever did! Oh maybe when he got me pregnant…I think he kissed me, lol…

I've promised myself to either be on my own, or be with someone who loves me truly! Valentine's day should be every day in a healthy relationship.

"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"

Divorcing - at last!

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