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User Topic: Valentine's Day week
sheila0304
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Member # 25041
Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wake me when it's over.


Posts: 1187 | Registered: Aug 2009
cmego
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex never made it a big deal anyway…nothing special to me. I just try and make it fun for my kids.

I doubt it will ever be special to me again…it is just a silly holiday.


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4284 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
justabrokendream
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Member # 3075
Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad I don't have to buy a card or feel obligated to anyone.....

Posts: 315 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: CA
I.will.survive
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Member # 34677
Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree! Probably because my break up is still fresh and I still love the man. Booo.

But instead of being romanced and enjoying spoiling someone else, I'll be in the Walmart Valentine's day aisles searching for the perfect pack of class Valentines a first grade boy would want to hand out.


Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He never "remembered" Valentine's Day. So each year I would buy myself and then share with him and the kids a whole bunch of chocolate covered strawberries! This year, I don't have to share.
I'm going to get myself a whole bunch of pretty flowers and put them in all of the vases around the house and decorate for me! Well, the cats will enjoy them too!
I'm thinking I might even pick myself up a cute, flirty nightie. Kit cats will enjoy that too when they snuggle up to Mami!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't oversleep for Saturday is International 50% off chocolates in heart shaped containers day. (see my PSA in F&G )


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53339 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I myself never really cared for Valentine's Day...like one day of someone NOT being an ass is supposed to counter the other 364 in the year...

Then again, 'jaded' is one of the current personality traits on my list of shit to work on in IC...


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 434 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I honestly don't recall one V-Day while married. So I guess they were all not worth remembering. Which is fitting since my ex is too

Countdown to: International 50% off chocolates!!


Posts: 510 | Registered: Jun 2012
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking forward to some cheap chocolate.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 502 | Registered: Nov 2013
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think champagne may go on sale on Saturday too!!

Now that I can get behind! I'm so not a chocolate person but I looooove champagne!

I, too, want this week to be over. I'm so sick of all the stupid, drippy jewelry commercials!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Weatherly
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My best friend's bf (who was living with her!) told her about 4 months ago that he had a new gf and a new job and TX and he'd see her around. It's been a hard few months, and she has a 2 yr old and a 12 yr old.

So...she is my Valentine's Day date. We're getting dressed up fancy and going out to dinner. Aussie's "date" is her 2 yr old daughter and the McDonald's play place. We're celebrating the day, but, not together and not exactly conventional.

I will probably be participating in 1/2 price chocolate day though!


Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 9

It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end

Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.


Posts: 4508 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Indiana
dignityintact
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a pretty annoying event, in my humble opinion.

No big deal for me - was with the ex for 20 years, I can't remember a single romantic thing he ever did! Oh maybe when he got me pregnant…I think he kissed me, lol…

I've promised myself to either be on my own, or be with someone who loves me truly! Valentine's day should be every day in a healthy relationship.


"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"

Divorcing - at last!


Posts: 94 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Uk
Topic Posts: 13

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