Thoughts are coming as I type and may appear nonsensical. Beer FTW.
Well, she has been back over a week now. She goes to IC in a few hours. We have MC on Wednesday. I have a doctors appointment Thursday. Planning on Retrouvaille. I'll be finding my own IC after we see MC.
We started reading "Not Just Friends" together. We've talked quite a bit about what has happened when the kids aren't around. We were even able to pass the kids off for four hours. Had her look in a mirror and say what she had done. Seemed to be remorse. Some spanking followed. It helped a little. Though I wanted to, I couldn't let it out at the time.
Sex has been difficult, I can perform, just can't reach the finish line myself. Thoughts keep popping in my head to bring me down. Though I have made her remember what I do for her. Then I remember any guy could do that with work.
She says she wishes she could go back and not do it. The lies and physical parts. I can't believe it with everything she has told me.
We sent a NC through FB and blocked the AP. Shortly thereafter we were both blocked from him. So my hope of him getting caught seems like it didn't happen. I've been waiting to close out her Skype account until I've figured out how to get the data I need from her Kindle. I still need to go through her laptop to find anything hidden in the cache.
As of this moment, I have no feelings for her aside from disappointment. No anger. No love. Just disappointment. She's done some reading here. It seems to have helped her understand what she has done. Right now though, I just feel like she is saying what I want to hear.
These damn thoughts of what she felt keep running in my head, and then suicide follows quickly after. I'm almost glad that I'd rather just crawl under my blanket and sleep for the next year. All the plans I've had for the year, gone down the drain. I don't want to do any of it now.
I know there isn't a quick route through this, and I'm sure I'm not the only one, but I wish there were.