This past Thursday, a co-worker and good friend revealed to me his wife had moved out, requested a separation. My friend got the ILYBINILWY from her. You guessed it, she had an affair.
He learned this about a month ago and it has been eating him alive and he needed someone to talk to. We talked for two hours and he thanked me. I did not share anything of my WW's A, nor does he know. I am very private.
Friday night my friend goes to work, an hour later he's in the hospital. He had a heart attack at age 44!
He is a worrier by nature. This was too much for him, as I talked to him yesterday after he was discharged from the hospital.
Not sure why I posted this. It just makes me feel so helpless and sad that infidelity can do so much damage. I'm sure he was a candidate for a heart attack prior to learning of the affair but, we all know how devastating and the physical and mental toll it takes on our bodies.
God help us all.