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User Topic: He doesn't get it!!
♀ 41040
Member # 41040
Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh, why can't he just come here and go over to Waywards and get some 2x4's.

He moved out Saturday. Things are going ok. Actually got it yesterday and I saw some hope. Today he wanted me to go play tennis with him and I was all for it. Then I got a text from OW's husband. OW and my WH denied the affair to him after I informed him. WH played the "he's unstable and I was afraid for you and the kids" card Anyway, her BS said he is going to believe her and put his faith in his wife. Whatever, can't control what he believes. I texted my WH a pic of that and said I wasnt up for tennis.

He got all pissy with me wanting to know why I was causing this drama!! Whatever. I told him he caused this drama when he screwed with other women during our marriage.

Why cant he just see that the proper response should have been "I understand and am sorry you had to deal with that this morning and with everything else I have done."

Is it really that freaking hard?!

WH -39; BS (me) 41
Married 15 years, 3 kiddos
First DDay 9/13. TT and 3 more DDays in the 6 months to follow. Trying to R.

Posts: 260 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southeast United States
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, February 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To a logical person, it's not hard at all. I'm sorry he doesn't get it.


Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
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