XPOS is truly fucked in the head and needs to go back to whatever planet he is from. Sick and sad.
Oh, he ended with a text that said: "I love you and miss you." HHHmmm...sure didn't miss me much when you were playing happy family with twatbox before she dumped your sorry ass! I felt absolutely nothing when he wrote that, no anger, no trigger, nothing. It just strikes me as pathetic at this point.
[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 9:51 AM, February 11th (Tuesday)]
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
I felt absolutely nothing when he wrote that, no anger, no trigger, nothing. It just strikes me as pathetic at this point.
Good for you!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
Apparently he texted DS20 earlier and asked if he knew of any friend's houses where he could stay because he couldn't afford a hotel.
He desperately wants this job and the most they were willing to push the interview to was tomorrow. Says he only plans to be there a day or two, but it depends on how he is flying back. I think he will either try to hit me or the kids up for cash/air miles or try to get a tax refund cash advance, which was mentioned yesterday.
This wouldn't be an issue if I was there, but not being there makes me VERY nervous! The girls are going to keep the house locked up like Fort Knox. I do believe this is coincidental and not planned because he didn't know I was going to be gone when he mentioned this (I don't share any of my personal info with him).
So let me get this straight, your ex cheats, lies, has a child with the OW, leaves you for unicorn/rainbow fartland, hates on you for awhile, the OW cheats on him and leaves, ex calls you for advice and sympathy, wants you to "help" him with paternity/CS issues and then asks you on a date before the unicorn/rainbow fartland relationship is even cold and buried?
That pretty much sums it up, except OW didn't cheat on him. She just up and left him when she realized what a loser POS she hooked up with...and I DID warn her, back in the beginning, through a letter I left on her door (before I found SI and knew what a waste of time that was).
Can we please, for the love of all that is Holy, get a "What to expect when you leave your spouse and family for the gutter trash you are cheating with" handbook?
Amen on that one!
XPOS is now back in my state, without me there. DD17 said he texted her to see if she wants to go to dinner tonight (he has not seen her since he left last March). She wants to go for the sole purpose of confronting him and releasing all her pent up anger. THAT should go well...
Now I have to come up with a way to get him out of there quickly. No, it is not my problem to solve HIS problem, but I want him GONE!!
So right. So so right.
"If I had enough air miles to send you to mars it would be so ON like Donkey Kong!! Alas, I don't. Go fuck yourself."
[This message edited by SBB at 6:41 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)]