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Phoenix1 posted 2/11/2014 09:49 AM

and my response was a great big NEGATORY! Oh, and this was right after he asked if he could use some of my air miles to fly back for an interview. Another "NO" response from me. And all this while he is asking for my advice how to handle twatbox and her paternity suit... When he asked why not a date (yes, he really asked that), I told him simply: You betrayed my trust and hurt me for 20 years. I don't date guys that do that. His response: You're right, I understand. We'll see if he really gets it or not! Don't care, regardless.

XPOS is truly fucked in the head and needs to go back to whatever planet he is from. Sick and sad.

Oh, he ended with a text that said: "I love you and miss you." HHHmmm...sure didn't miss me much when you were playing happy family with twatbox before she dumped your sorry ass! I felt absolutely nothing when he wrote that, no anger, no trigger, nothing. It just strikes me as pathetic at this point.

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 9:51 AM, February 11th (Tuesday)]

Nature_Girl posted 2/11/2014 10:03 AM

He's lost touch with reality.

nowiknow23 posted 2/11/2014 10:05 AM

((((Phoenix))))

dmari posted 2/11/2014 10:10 AM

He sure has some nerve!! A date, air miles AND advice?!?!

I felt absolutely nothing when he wrote that, no anger, no trigger, nothing. It just strikes me as pathetic at this point.

Ahhhh ... smell that? That's indifference! Beautiful.

Pass posted 2/11/2014 10:52 AM

Feeny, you are living the dream! Nothing would make me happier than to have The Princess ask me for a date - so I could shoot her down. It would be amazing to let her feel some rejection.

Good for you!

BAB61 posted 2/11/2014 13:06 PM

IT IS pathetic ... smh, NO, just NO must really be code for maybe ... at least if you're a POS lying cheater.

Threnody posted 2/11/2014 14:31 PM

Chippednotbroken posted 2/11/2014 20:27 PM

BAHAHAHA Thren

Nature_Girl posted 2/11/2014 20:48 PM

Love it, Thren! That's about what my face looked like when I was reading the OP.

Phoenix1 posted 2/11/2014 21:06 PM

So asshole texted me to say that he is in transit back to my state (flying) for the interview. He only has enough money to get there, not return. The bad part? I am currently out of state on business!!! Had to give the girls a heads up that he is not allowed in the house. Told DD17 to stay away from the house (and with friends or her sister) while he is there so she is not put in an uncomfortable position.

Apparently he texted DS20 earlier and asked if he knew of any friend's houses where he could stay because he couldn't afford a hotel.

He desperately wants this job and the most they were willing to push the interview to was tomorrow. Says he only plans to be there a day or two, but it depends on how he is flying back. I think he will either try to hit me or the kids up for cash/air miles or try to get a tax refund cash advance, which was mentioned yesterday.

This wouldn't be an issue if I was there, but not being there makes me VERY nervous! The girls are going to keep the house locked up like Fort Knox. I do believe this is coincidental and not planned because he didn't know I was going to be gone when he mentioned this (I don't share any of my personal info with him).

IrishLass518 posted 2/11/2014 22:16 PM

So let me get this straight, your ex cheats, lies, has a child with the OW, leaves you for unicorn/rainbow fartland, hates on you for awhile, the OW cheats on him and leaves, ex calls you for advice and sympathy, wants you to "help" him with paternity/CS issues and then asks you on a date before the unicorn/rainbow fartland relationship is even cold and buried?
Can we please, for the love of all that is Holy, get a "What to expect when you leave your spouse and family for the gutter trash you are cheating with" handbook?

gma56 posted 2/11/2014 22:22 PM

I would be saying...Hell the Fuck NO !!!!!!!
Then start and say, You think I'm that crazy to go out with YOU ???
And I'm certainly not THAT hard up for a date either.

The air miles? That's a Fuck NO too !!

Phoenix1 posted 2/12/2014 12:25 PM

So let me get this straight, your ex cheats, lies, has a child with the OW, leaves you for unicorn/rainbow fartland, hates on you for awhile, the OW cheats on him and leaves, ex calls you for advice and sympathy, wants you to "help" him with paternity/CS issues and then asks you on a date before the unicorn/rainbow fartland relationship is even cold and buried?

That pretty much sums it up, except OW didn't cheat on him. She just up and left him when she realized what a loser POS she hooked up with...and I DID warn her, back in the beginning, through a letter I left on her door (before I found SI and knew what a waste of time that was).

Can we please, for the love of all that is Holy, get a "What to expect when you leave your spouse and family for the gutter trash you are cheating with" handbook?

Amen on that one!

XPOS is now back in my state, without me there. DD17 said he texted her to see if she wants to go to dinner tonight (he has not seen her since he left last March). She wants to go for the sole purpose of confronting him and releasing all her pent up anger. THAT should go well...

Now I have to come up with a way to get him out of there quickly. No, it is not my problem to solve HIS problem, but I want him GONE!!

SBB posted 2/12/2014 18:40 PM

Thren, that gif had me crying with laughter.

So right. So so right.

"If I had enough air miles to send you to mars it would be so ON like Donkey Kong!! Alas, I don't. Go fuck yourself."

[This message edited by SBB at 6:41 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)]

solus sto posted 2/12/2014 19:27 PM

Threnody nailed it. Now my is wholly inadequate.

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