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shortchanged38 posted 2/11/2014 17:49 PM

I would like to thank everyone who participated in the HB survey.

Thank you . We all know a little bit more about HB.

Now the numbers.

At the time of this (my) posting, there were 94 responses. Of that only 91 can be counted. I posted twice(I did the first and second post) and there was one "double post".

Here is the break down of 91 post/response to survey question

64 post replied YES
25 post replied NO
2 post replied UNSURE

Can someone do a percentages breakdown? I really don't know how to do that .

bionicgal posted 2/11/2014 17:53 PM

I am an English major, so take it for what it is worth:

70% Yes
27% No
2% Unsure

(and 1% rounding error.)

Ostrich80 posted 2/11/2014 18:17 PM

I missed it what was the question? Just curious so I can understand what the numbers mean.

shortchanged38 posted 2/11/2014 18:21 PM

The survey question

"Have you experienced HB after DDay?"

HB is short for hysterical bonding.

Getting to Happy posted 2/11/2014 21:08 PM

Can I vote now??

YES. It has tapered a bit but we are still at it...

It was very difficult to indulge in HB at first. I had to just get into the physical part of sex. I told Mr. Happy that after all these years my body knew his body so I could follow through. But the mind movies were horrible.

PainPainGoAway gave the link to a really great youtube. A bit gross but it really did the trick for me. Thank goodness because I really like sex and was pissed that the AP almost succeeded in repulsing me from my own husband. I know...he was a willing partner but I was able to...er...uh...perform because I put their 'lurrrve' into another catagory.

I am forever grateful for that video PPGA, Thanks!!

Their trysts had nothing to do with love, just base urges, they used each other at my expense.

Mr. Happy and I have so much more love and caring...

We are about 3 years out and the AP is more of a bad smell that wont go away instead of being the source of searing pain.

So that is my long answer...YES!

LA44 posted 2/11/2014 21:09 PM

Here's another....Yes. We did HB.

courageous posted 2/11/2014 21:22 PM

I second painpaingoaway's video. It helped me soooo much.

The answer for me was yes also. I never saw the original question/ post about it either.

shortchanged38 posted 2/11/2014 21:38 PM

The original post is in the just found out forum.

The title is "Survey: Who experienced hysterical bonding and who didn't?"

It is a very interesting read.

phoenixrise posted 2/12/2014 00:32 AM

Missed it my vote would have been yes...big hell yes...it got wild and crazy and was some of the best sex of my life!

lostinthesouth posted 2/12/2014 00:55 AM

@Getting to Happy & @courageous

PainPainGoAway gave the link to a really great youtube. A bit gross but it really did the trick for me.

I second painpaingoaway's video. It helped me soooo much.

freelancer posted 2/12/2014 04:08 AM

And another YES, YES, YES. I am 5 months pregnant with a HB baby.

JanaGreen posted 2/12/2014 09:00 AM

What was this video?

freelancer posted 2/12/2014 18:52 PM

Yes! Anyone that can PM me the link to the video, it would be much appreciated.

Rebreather posted 2/12/2014 18:55 PM

Another yes.

RedRose posted 2/12/2014 20:33 PM

Yes for me too.

20WrongsVs1 posted 2/12/2014 20:40 PM

Don't think I'm allowed to post in JFO.

Yes.

foolishlycluless posted 2/12/2014 20:44 PM

Yes, please post the link for the video!!

outtanowhere posted 2/12/2014 20:44 PM

Yes and a big amen to phoenixrise's post! By far the most baffling human emotion I've ever experienced. Still don't really understand it!

ladycody posted 2/13/2014 11:37 AM

Me too please?

Neverwudaguessed posted 2/13/2014 11:43 AM

please; can anyone give the link to that video?

Thank you!