My Dday was in August 2013, sext messages between H and OW. H got mad that I found it on his phone. How dare I touch his private property. I called OWH and asked if he knew what was going on. OWH did not and he let me confront my H. Confronted H he left, packed all his belongings and then calls me from another state to come home.
I let him come back much to the chagrin of my daughter if he would go to counseling. No counseling yet. H works away from home most weeks. I was awarded tickets to to go to a professional ball game at work. I asked my daughter to go she did not want to. H was working in another state. - extra ticket given to co worker. H calls me at game, I sent pix of all of us. H seems fine and then I get text at 3:00 am. You took another man to the game, thanx. H will not call back, trying to prepare our taxes.
Worried as he works all lot and gets tired driving everywhere state to state. I sent a text stating such and if he was okay. Text back from H states, he will be back in a couple of days then "big" talk, I am sure this was not the first date for you.
I was with co workers and my boss!! I text to H that I am sure you do things with your coworkers. Hence gambling, which he has no idea I know. Card membership came to the house!!
What could the big talk be!! My daughter states that he is jealous and probably doing something wrong and trying to make himself feel better.
Thoughts? Anyone there is more it, as I found out before we were married, but not together that he was soliciting for sex on the internet. Probably should not of got married in the first place. We have only been married since June 2013.
I do not trust him or respect him still because he has done nothing to repair the damage.
We never talk anymore and he's boring me. I feel strong most times and happy that he was going away to work. Now I am pissed and sad at the same time. I worked my butt off fixing property and buying it back from my brother in Feb. H is on the mortgage and he owes back child support. House is up for sale and I will be damned if H's ex gets it.
How do I prepare for the big talk, why can't he talk now on the phone like a normal husband would do.