Last time I did this I was not in a good place just kept getting shorter and shorter. Maybe it will grow on me (ha, I am so funny tonight)
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
So a signal of many changes I guess. Thinking I'll book myself a valentines spa night :))
I was a bit shocked about it for a day or two, and then I decided I loved it. I hope you love yours too, roar.
"And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be."
- Sarah McMane
I've always had really, really, really long hair (ass length-ish). I love it. My stylist cut it to nipple length last time ... I'm one sad otter.
But ... once it's cut, it's done. I know, it grows back, blah, blah, blah. Something very comforting, to me, about having a bunch of hair to hide behind, in.
So......about 10 months ago, I got extensions. Long-ass extensions.
Enjoy your new hair-style, Roar......and, if you end up hating it (which I hope that you don't)....remember that it's only hair and it DOES grow back!
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
I always loved my long hair. Now the longer we were married, the shorter my hair got (not short, short, but above shoulder length). I think it was a subconscious expression of my unhappiness (The Arse liked it long).
When I started making an effort at changing myself and looking for happiness where I was, rather than yearning for what wasn't, I grew it to just about my shoulders. When DDday happened, I decided I was going to grow it long. Whatever happened with R or not, I was going to be me and I was going to aim to be happy in my life.
10 months after he finally walked out, I have lovely long mid back length hair, with brand new highlights, which I love...and it makes me look younger too.
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him
Although, I found a super cute short hair style on Pinterest.
I've always heard, "When a woman cuts her hair, she is about to change her life."
I look adorable with pixie hair, but I've had it almost 3 years and just now growing it back out some.
I dated one guy who just loved it. His hands were always in my hair.
Some guys like long hair, some like short…I just do what *I* like.
Maybe I should grow it long and get a Rachel. Hmmmm.
It's now "long". A chin length bob. I'm kinda liking it. I also dyed it brown with highlights.
I still feel like a blonde inside - I'm shocked every time I look in the mirror.
My hair is still shoulder lenght but I pull it back into a pony tail every day because I can't be bothered to take the time to style it.
I want to get it layered again like I had it after the kids were born. Shake and go.
I don't have time for anything else.
Well now after 10+ months I am completely silver. Long silver hair, aka Silver Fox!
I have never had long hair, always chin length or above the shoulders. I don't think it looks great long, but STBXH was always not on board with long hair. I know there are lots of ow I haven't seen, but all that I have had long hair. And his main 5 yr squeeze had very, very long hair. Wonder if that was part if why he wanted it shorter (but not to short.)
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