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User Topic: The OW's remorse ahahahahaa
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Found this beauty online this morning...rant rave or just shake your head in disbelief.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/02/im-the-girl-your-husband-is-sleeping-with-and-i-kind-of-think-you-deserve-it/


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That was by far the dumbest thing I ever read.
Anyone who thinks like that, has some serious issues, or any man for that fact like the one in the article.

Mrs. ANONYMOUS, what you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.

[This message edited by LostSamurai at 7:01 AM, February 12th (Wednesday)]


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
marionwendy
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Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! Leave it to beaver????? Yah right! My life was far from that! Some of these women need a good slap on the backside of the head!


BS-49
WS-50
Married-18
Together-21
Children-2

Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.


Posts: 227 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: canada
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 7:01 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep; Sickened me. Stupid whores.


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Talk about not getting it. JHC!!! She herself is never going to have a relationship worth anything. Have fun in cheaterville lady.

Just awful


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2487 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
silentscream13
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh...so that's why. Silly me. I thought there was so much more to "the why" than that. And of course, she knows these men are telling her the truth about their significant others. I mean we all know that when a person is cheating they are 100% honest.

Geez...after reading her article I feel ignorant.

I need to go read some Tolstoy to replenish my brain cells...


ME: BS- 40; HIM: WS - 40 (lostmymind13); 4 kids
Sexting,OEA/NO PA (planning it b/f he got caught) w/ EX-GF; extreme porn use our entire relationship.
D-day - 11-14-13
Together: 18 years; Married: 15 years
Status: He wants to R. Me? Meh.

Posts: 286 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Nowhere and Everywhere
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^^this is what my face felt like while reading that.


^^^^^^this is what my face felt like while responding to it. I couldn't not respond. It was all so stupid!!


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2813 | Registered: Oct 2012
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some of the responses were great. What kind of a stupid woman would really write something like that. Obviously a very shallow individual.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1448 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Merida
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

best line I will always remember from the TV show millennium

"you must be so lonely"

sad how she is rationalizing lowering her standards to being an unpaid hooker

this pretty much sums it up

http://www.demotivation.us/newest/life/the-grass-is-always-greener-on-the-other-side-1285427.html


"The Will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

"The darkest night is dispelled by the humblest of flames."


WH is katumus and I am not reading his posts


Posts: 234 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Maryland
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bwahahahaah, let this stupid B act all fun and good drugs when she is M with kids and a demanding H who wants her to work, play Mommy, make his meals and his children's meals, pay the bills. You know, REALITY and responsibility. Let's see who has the last laugh when her WS finds a FUN girl to get high with and have fantasy sex while she is pulling her hair out trying to keep up with her responsibilities and wondering why HER husband isn't engaged in the M anymore.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't even manage to get worked up over something that silly.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6972 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll bet she's contributed mightily to build a wing on her GYN's home.

What with all those STD tests and treatments and all.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21119 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Truly "young and dumb".


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6636 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
NikkiD
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Girl...BYE...


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BARF!

This article is horrid.


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cannot even think.. Too close to home.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1611 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So is Kristen Stewart an author now?


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6697 | Registered: Jan 2011
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It should have been titled "Everyone (including the married guy I'm sleeping with) thinks I'm a whore and I deserve it." Add her to a long line of OW who believes every lie a married guy tells her through pot hazed eyes. Thirty years from now she'll be that lonely bar whore with a smoker's voice and a sad tale about how she has nothing. I like to show women like that pictures of my house.

[This message edited by Tearsoflove at 1:22 PM, February 12th (Wednesday)]


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 4306 | Registered: Sep 2005
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is this some kind of joke????

What a deluded world this woman lives in.

Women want the title and the image: a fancy wedding, a big house. Men want the physical stuff, however shallow it seems: sex and someone who makes them feel desired.

Um No we don't. I wanted to marry and spend the rest of my life, and raise kids with this guy who I believed wanted the same. Oh and I did NOT want or have the fancy wedding, and big house, and I always my H feel desired, when I wasn't so physically exhausted from being a Wife, Mother, Nurse, and Productive member of society.

He couldnít stop complimenting me, how I liked to have fun, how I wasnít uptight, how I was dressed up for the occasion. The reality of all of this made me really hate his wife.

Wait you hate his wife, because she doesn't dress like a whore M-F when she is supporting her family, and scrubbing the shit stains out of Mr Hook Ups drawers?

He was hungry to not be dead inside, the way you are when youíre a certain kind of middle-aged married man.

How is his wife responsible for his MLC? I'm sure there are days where she wishes Mr Shitstains still looked like he did when they married, and still treated her with the love, passion and respect he did prior to life happening.

When he was inside me, he burst out laughing, he was so happy

Are you sure he wasn't nervously giggling about realizing he was just about to loose everything he had spent his entire adult life working for???
YOU must have an amazing golden, bedazzled Va jay jay.

I know that their wives bait and switched them. Like, they just donít care about their husbands. I donít get it. Who would choose to get caught up in the stress of life and kids and home life when you could just as easily choose to still be fun and zesty?

OMG I never thought of life like this. I bait and switched my spouse, he married a young single woman, and now suddenly has a wife that is no longer single, is middle aged, and has 2 kids....What a low down mean dirty trick....
Oh yah I'm all about fun and zest, right after I work a 50 hour work week, take care of the kids, cook all the meals, and launder more of Mr Shitstains clothes. I've got all kinds of extra energy for fun after that.

Affairs are the consequences of your actions if you leave everything to be desired. Itís not shocking or evil, itís a symptom of a disease you yourself are a part of creating

Wow. Just wow. Your right you are the disease, oh wait, it's probably more like several diseases, including but certainly not limited to Chalmidia, warts, herpes, and of course HPV. You may think these things aren't evil now, but when your cervix starts rotting off I bet you change your mind, you deluded stupid, narcissistic, waste of oxygen, cu*!

I would love to be there when the Karma bus arrives at her doorstep.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
silentscream13
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YOU must have an amazing golden, bedazzled Va jay jay.


ME: BS- 40; HIM: WS - 40 (lostmymind13); 4 kids
Sexting,OEA/NO PA (planning it b/f he got caught) w/ EX-GF; extreme porn use our entire relationship.
D-day - 11-14-13
Together: 18 years; Married: 15 years
Status: He wants to R. Me? Meh.

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