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mof2 posted 2/12/2014 07:59 AM

February 12, 2013....the coward asked me for a divorce over the phone. I called my parents who live 400 miles away and got in the car to come up here. I don't remember too much that day after the bomb drop. I just remember being in the fetal position in my bed and crying like I've never cried in my life.

February 12, 2014....got up this morning, woke my kiddos up, fed our 2 dogs and our cat, took my kiddos to school and told them both that I loved them. Haven't shed a tear yet. This could possibly be a good day.

sage2004 posted 2/12/2014 08:25 AM

Nice! That is nice to hear! Have a wonderful day and enjoy that you are not having to be around anyone that hurts you.

nowiknow23 posted 2/12/2014 09:08 AM

RealityStinks posted 2/12/2014 09:10 AM

My D was filed this morning. I hope I'm feeling the same way a year from now (hopefully sooner ).

So happy to read stories like this to know that it gets better.

roarlouder posted 2/12/2014 09:27 AM

Today sounds like a GREAT day!!

hexed posted 2/12/2014 09:35 AM

Its already started well :)

mof2 posted 2/12/2014 09:41 AM

RealityStinks, it does get better. I promise! Just hang in there!

GingerAle posted 2/12/2014 09:53 AM

Great news! Keep that great day going

movingforward13 posted 2/12/2014 10:29 AM

Hugs honey! My XWH asked me to marry him 2/12/11... But I woke up like you today- no care in the world. Life goes on!!!

MadeOfScars posted 2/12/2014 12:03 PM

I'll echo those comments that its great to hear that over time, the hurt, pain and angst falls away to acceptance and maybe even happiness. Here's to a great day mof2! You deserve it!

Pass posted 2/12/2014 17:29 PM

Even if the rest of the day were to fall flat on its face, it will be better than last year by a metric shitload. Enjoy what you can!

SBB posted 2/12/2014 18:28 PM

I was so glad when that first year of "firsts" was over. Post DD first christmas, first birthdays, first everything. Year 2 was so much easier. 2 years since DD for me in a few weeks (18m from Final S) so I'm heading into my third year post DD.

I'm still mourning but healing nicely. Life is good.

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