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mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 1:59 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
February 12, 2013....the coward asked me for a divorce over the phone. I called my parents who live 400 miles away and got in the car to come up here. I don't remember too much that day after the bomb drop. I just remember being in the fetal position in my bed and crying like I've never cried in my life.
February 12, 2014....got up this morning, woke my kiddos up, fed our 2 dogs and our cat, took my kiddos to school and told them both that I loved them. Haven't shed a tear yet. This could possibly be a good day. 
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
sage2004 ( member #27597) posted at 2:25 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Nice! That is nice to hear! Have a wonderful day and enjoy that you are not having to be around anyone that hurts you.
BS ME (38)
WH (48)
09/05/2014 DIVORCED!!!!
WH had 2 affairs in first year of marriage
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:08 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
RealityStinks ( member #41457) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
My D was filed this morning. I hope I'm feeling the same way a year from now (hopefully sooner ).
So happy to read stories like this to know that it gets better.
roarlouder ( member #40921) posted at 3:27 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Today sounds like a GREAT day!!
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Its already started well :)
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 3:41 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
RealityStinks, it does get better. I promise! Just hang in there!
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 3:53 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Great news! Keep that great day going 
My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1
2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2
I divorced him in May 2014
movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 4:29 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Hugs honey! My XWH asked me to marry him 2/12/11... But I woke up like you today- no care in the world. Life goes on!!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 6:03 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
I'll echo those comments that its great to hear that over time, the hurt, pain and angst falls away to acceptance and maybe even happiness. Here's to a great day mof2! You deserve it!
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 11:29 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014
Even if the rest of the day were to fall flat on its face, it will be better than last year by a metric shitload. Enjoy what you can!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:28 AM on Thursday, February 13th, 2014
I was so glad when that first year of "firsts" was over. Post DD first christmas, first birthdays, first everything. Year 2 was so much easier. 2 years since DD for me in a few weeks (18m from Final S) so I'm heading into my third year post DD.
I'm still mourning but healing nicely. Life is good.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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