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Topic: Feb 12th
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mof2
♀ 40287
Member # 40287 |  Posted: 7:59 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 |     |
February 12, 2013....the coward asked me for a divorce over the phone. I called my parents who live 400 miles away and got in the car to come up here. I don't remember too much that day after the bomb drop. I just remember being in the fetal position in my bed and crying like I've never cried in my life.
February 12, 2014....got up this morning, woke my kiddos up, fed our 2 dogs and our cat, took my kiddos to school and told them both that I loved them. Haven't shed a tear yet. This could possibly be a good day. 
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
Posts: 320 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW |
sage2004
♀ 27597
Member # 27597 | | Posted: 8:25 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Nice! That is nice to hear! Have a wonderful day and enjoy that you are not having to be around anyone that hurts you.
BS ME (38)
WH (48)
09/05/2014 DIVORCED!!!!
WH had 2 affairs in first year of marriage
Posts: 306 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Georgia |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:08 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28345 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
RealityStinks
♂ 41457
Member # 41457 | | Posted: 9:10 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
My D was filed this morning. I hope I'm feeling the same way a year from now (hopefully sooner ).
So happy to read stories like this to know that it gets better.
Posts: 414 | Registered: Nov 2013 |
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921 | | Posted: 9:27 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Today sounds like a GREAT day!!
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258 | | Posted: 9:35 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Its already started well :)
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8723 | Registered: Apr 2008 |
mof2
♀ 40287
Member # 40287 | | Posted: 9:41 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
RealityStinks, it does get better. I promise! Just hang in there!
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
Posts: 320 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW |
GingerAle
♀ 33822
Member # 33822 | | Posted: 9:53 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Great news! Keep that great day going 
My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
At least 2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014
Divorce final 12/2014
Posts: 428 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
movingforward13
♀ 38405
Member # 38405 | | Posted: 10:29 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Hugs honey! My XWH asked me to marry him 2/12/11... But I woke up like you today- no care in the world. Life goes on!!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
Posts: 645 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC |
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231 | | Posted: 12:03 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I'll echo those comments that its great to hear that over time, the hurt, pain and angst falls away to acceptance and maybe even happiness. Here's to a great day mof2! You deserve it!
“Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.” - Dave Mustaine
"A unicorn isn't a unicorn. It's a donkey with a plunger stuck to it's face."
Posts: 1741 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas |
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122 | | Posted: 5:29 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Even if the rest of the day were to fall flat on its face, it will be better than last year by a metric shitload. Enjoy what you can!
Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
Posts: 2158 | Registered: Jan 2013 |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 6:28 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I was so glad when that first year of "firsts" was over. Post DD first christmas, first birthdays, first everything. Year 2 was so much easier. 2 years since DD for me in a few weeks (18m from Final S) so I'm heading into my third year post DD.
I'm still mourning but healing nicely. Life is good.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5844 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
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