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mof2 posted 2/12/2014 07:59 AM

February 12, 2013....the coward asked me for a divorce over the phone. I called my parents who live 400 miles away and got in the car to come up here. I don't remember too much that day after the bomb drop. I just remember being in the fetal position in my bed and crying like I've never cried in my life.

February 12, up this morning, woke my kiddos up, fed our 2 dogs and our cat, took my kiddos to school and told them both that I loved them. Haven't shed a tear yet. This could possibly be a good day.

sage2004 posted 2/12/2014 08:25 AM

Nice! That is nice to hear! Have a wonderful day and enjoy that you are not having to be around anyone that hurts you.

nowiknow23 posted 2/12/2014 09:08 AM

RealityStinks posted 2/12/2014 09:10 AM

My D was filed this morning. I hope I'm feeling the same way a year from now (hopefully sooner ).

So happy to read stories like this to know that it gets better.

roarlouder posted 2/12/2014 09:27 AM

Today sounds like a GREAT day!!

hexed posted 2/12/2014 09:35 AM

Its already started well :)

mof2 posted 2/12/2014 09:41 AM

RealityStinks, it does get better. I promise! Just hang in there!

GingerAle posted 2/12/2014 09:53 AM

Great news! Keep that great day going

movingforward13 posted 2/12/2014 10:29 AM

Hugs honey! My XWH asked me to marry him 2/12/11... But I woke up like you today- no care in the world. Life goes on!!!

MadeOfScars posted 2/12/2014 12:03 PM

I'll echo those comments that its great to hear that over time, the hurt, pain and angst falls away to acceptance and maybe even happiness. Here's to a great day mof2! You deserve it!

Pass posted 2/12/2014 17:29 PM

Even if the rest of the day were to fall flat on its face, it will be better than last year by a metric shitload. Enjoy what you can!

SBB posted 2/12/2014 18:28 PM

I was so glad when that first year of "firsts" was over. Post DD first christmas, first birthdays, first everything. Year 2 was so much easier. 2 years since DD for me in a few weeks (18m from Final S) so I'm heading into my third year post DD.

I'm still mourning but healing nicely. Life is good.

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