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User Topic: Barbie in Sports Illustrated
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sports Illustrated will be featuring Barbie in their swimsuit addition of the magazine.
Personally, I am horrified at this.

1) It never occurred to me now that my daughter’s toys could be essentially porn dolls for my husband. Thanks for putting that thought in my head SI!

2) Sexualizing a child’s toy is totally creepy. And YES- I know that there are adults who collect Barbie, but I’m thinking that the Barbie collecting adult population is NOT the target audience for the SI swimsuit addition, call me crazy.

3) Don’t people argue all the time that Barbie is just a toy, and that girls shouldn’t feel bad about themselves because of an 11 inch doll? Well put her next to sports illustrated models wearing basically nothing, and you essentially send girls that EXACT message- that barbie’s body is sexy, these girls’ bodies are sexy, and if you have a couple extra pounds on your body or a scar or a mole or something- well, you’re not sexy.

4) Now, when I go to the store for the next month and a half, I get to listen to my 5 year old girl whine at me and beg to get the “Barbie magazine.” Once again, thank you SI!

What does everyone else think?

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

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♀ 42092
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More same old same old unfortunately--women get objectified, prettified, turned so unreal in media, in order to satisfy a male gaze that only cares about looks and devalues who people are. It's so sad and really seeps into everything.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
♂ 41347
Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I don't read Sports Illustrated. Never have and never will.

2. Barbie, is not a big deal in my opinion. My daughter likes the toys, and that's all they are.
They don't set a standard.

I was against my daughter getting Barbie at first but my WW was ok with it.

3. Barbie is not even close to what a real woman looks like.

4. You think it's bad that women are being objectified, yes, but it's real bad that men/young boys are being told that this is what a woman should look like and being treated like.

A toy...Used for fun now...Have to get some accessories for her once in a while...then you throw her away when you out grow her and reminisce about the memories you had. That's the sad part. It tells them that message all hidden within the context.

...Imagine if they put GI JOE action figures on the cover of Playgirl.

I am the wandering samurai, and I found my freedom...

Posts: 1045 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
♀ 38173
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a former athlete, this irritates me. There are plenty of female athletes who look AMAZING...different weights, shapes and heights...I think featuring them would be better. ONE, they actually have something to do with sports. TWO, the different body types are more realistic to real life.

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Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
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Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My good friend and I cut out all the bathing suits/girls in the swimsuit edition H received while we were dating. lol

As for Barbie - I think it is ridiculous to put a fake woman in the magazine

Me - WS
H - BH

D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM

Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012

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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gee, I wonder why 90% of women in the US have body image issues? I'm not saying Barbie in SI is the sole culprit, but it's definitely a symptom of how media screws women over. Royally.

Look! Now they don't even have to waste time air-brushing, bc their model is plastic to begin with!

A world of UGHHHHH

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Kids: yes

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