FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
So STBXWHNPDPAFTG is well, Passive Aggressive. You know, mostly passive but with a really nasty controlling and manipulative undertone to it....
He had some things that weren't mine but belonged to a non-profit I'm involved in and they needed the stuff, so I sent him a text asking if I could get it. A few texts to set up the meeting time and location, I suggest a couple places then "you decide time and place" so he chooses:
8:45am at <public place near his OW6/GFs>
I roll into parking area at 8:42. 8:45 he texts me "running 10 minutes late"
I text back "I'm on time and waiting"
This is textbook predictable. I'm the person who is honorable, keeps her word and sets up reliable appointments and meets expectations.... he is NOT.
I get the stuff then ask if he wants to be informed or participate in a certain project the non-profit is doing.
He whines "I seem to have been kicked off the lists, I never hear about anything anymore, are you still blocking me?"
I say "YES, I still have you blocked, but if you "like" non-profit on facebook you should receive notifications as I am not the one posting them"
"Are you going to keep me blocked?"
"YES, I am. It's better for me that way."
"Thanks for the stuff, bye"
Just a few more things NOT between us anymore.
I'm laughing a little as I really felt cut off and ripped off, when he shredded my world and I lost friends and connections in our community. Now he is feeling that way, and I don't give a shit. It's his responsibility to stay connected to the non-profit if he wants to. I'm not feeding him info any more. Too bad, so sad.
I edit because I always make typos.