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User Topic: Hahahahah! Yes, I really like having you blocked!
heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So STBXWHNPDPAFTG is well, Passive Aggressive. You know, mostly passive but with a really nasty controlling and manipulative undertone to it....

He had some things that weren't mine but belonged to a non-profit I'm involved in and they needed the stuff, so I sent him a text asking if I could get it. A few texts to set up the meeting time and location, I suggest a couple places then "you decide time and place" so he chooses:

8:45am at <public place near his OW6/GFs>

I roll into parking area at 8:42. 8:45 he texts me "running 10 minutes late"

I text back "I'm on time and waiting"

This is textbook predictable. I'm the person who is honorable, keeps her word and sets up reliable appointments and meets expectations.... he is NOT.

Whatev!

I get the stuff then ask if he wants to be informed or participate in a certain project the non-profit is doing.

He whines "I seem to have been kicked off the lists, I never hear about anything anymore, are you still blocking me?"

I say "YES, I still have you blocked, but if you "like" non-profit on facebook you should receive notifications as I am not the one posting them"

"Are you going to keep me blocked?"

"YES, I am. It's better for me that way."
"Thanks for the stuff, bye"

Just a few more things NOT between us anymore.

I'm laughing a little as I really felt cut off and ripped off, when he shredded my world and I lost friends and connections in our community. Now he is feeling that way, and I don't give a shit. It's his responsibility to stay connected to the non-profit if he wants to. I'm not feeding him info any more. Too bad, so sad.


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1844 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nicely done.

Bonus points for maturity since you waited to start laughing until after you drove off.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5034 | Registered: Aug 2013
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best thing about blocking them on facebook is the little dialog that pops up and says, "We're sorry you had this experience." I figure that's the only apology I'll get related to this whole thing - The Princess doesn't do apologies.


Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!


Posts: 3111 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
kg201
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best thing about blocking them on facebook is the little dialog that pops up and says, "We're sorry you had this experience." I figure that's the only apology I'll get related to this whole thing - The Princess doesn't do apologies.

Darn it all. If I had blocked my STBX instead of the other way around then I would have had an apology too. Missed my chance.


Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1155 | Registered: Aug 2013
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please, please tell me how to do this so I make sure I do it first. I'm basically FB illiterate.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5034 | Registered: Aug 2013
heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here is facebook's help page on blocking someone:

https://www.facebook.com/help/?faq=168009843260943#How-do-I-block-someone?


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1844 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

are you still blocking me?"

HE DID NOT SAY THAT?? Is he in his 40s?

Dude, show your dick some respect. Seriously.

The sad clown wouldn't have noticed I blocked him - he is FB illiterate. I wish you could block them IRL too. How awesome would that be? Invisible and mute and handovers and I to him.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5981 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish you could block them IRL too. How awesome would that be? Invisible and mute

oh SBB that is PRICELESS

Indeed it would be fucking awesome.

LA LA LA! I can't HEAR you!


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1844 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
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