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User Topic: Are you kidding?
honesttoafault
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Member # 27105
Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some of the reasons that WH told me he had the A was because he wasn't sexually satified with me, I was too "loose" down there, AND we didn't have sex often enough (once or twice a week with little kids isn't often enough)

Yesterday he tells me he wants to be separated. He doesn't want to be married to me anymore. He adds:

"I don't want to be your love slave anymore!"

NPD translation: I don't want to have to tell you I love you, be nice or affectionate to you.

But still!!!


Posts: 1947 | Registered: Jan 2010
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you can laugh at this! Obviously it's a terrible situation, but...that is still hilarious. You kept him chained in manacles I assume? Poor widdle WH!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
honesttoafault
♀ 27105
Member # 27105
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was a blessing in disguise that he said this! I was about to be a weeping mess, until he said this with all seriousness!

Posts: 1947 | Registered: Jan 2010
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, February 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Then he does not know how a woman's body works or how to make love to a woman. If given proper foreplay, time, and real attention to personal touching, most women, no matter how old or how many kids, will respond with the proper tone to make any man happy. If you are too loose then he is not doing his job correctly. If he is lazy, that is his problem.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1584 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
Ostrich80
34827
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've never bought the "loose" bullshit. A woman's body is designed to birth a child. Maybe he just has a pencil dick? Sorry I'm jus kidding but I hate that loose excuse.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5238 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
justjim
♂ 41150
Member # 41150
Default  Posted: 5:07 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds to me like he said such a terrible thing for the purpose of hurting you and turning you into a "weeping mess".

It appears to have had the opposite effect and has made you strong and resolute.

I, for one, fistpumped and shouted "YES!" when I got to the end of your post and realized that you are so much stronger than he gave you credit for.

Now... Take his sorry ass to the cleaners.


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013
justjim
♂ 41150
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Default  Posted: 5:07 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for the double post.

[This message edited by justjim at 5:08 AM, February 13th (Thursday)]


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013
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