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FracturedSoul posted 2/12/2014 23:33 PM

Morning all,
WH and I had a mini fight last night...anyway, everytime this happens, I start thinking about divorce. Is this normal???

1Emptyglass posted 2/13/2014 00:09 AM

Normal for me. We have been trying R for 2+ years and I still wonder if it is a deal breaker for me. Best of luck to you.

Trying2Survive1 posted 2/13/2014 00:15 AM

Normal for me too. There are still some days I wake up and think I can't deal with the whole situation

iwillNOT posted 2/13/2014 01:08 AM

This happens for me too...then an hour and another conversation later, the feeling goes away. I think it just goes along with the roller coaster. I am starting to get the idea that if I wait it out then usually the" everything is doomed" outlook passes. Of course, it comes back next time

Dreamland posted 2/13/2014 01:14 AM

Normal for me.. Except now he is I'll so I won't divorce him. He has no family here came to this country because of me and so much history I just can't dump him while he's dying. But I think now if he were healthy maybe I would D. He loves me tells me daily he's sorry and how he fucked things up but somehow it just doesn't matter. I say I love you back because I do but I'm not in love with him. He killed that when he cheated.
:(

wert posted 2/13/2014 08:44 AM

Yep. Thoughts are just those...thoughts.

take care...

rachelc posted 2/13/2014 08:57 AM

Yep daily. A wise poster here says being in the "not divorcing" stage for a while is ok too.

million tears posted 2/13/2014 09:06 AM

I do this too. It's just a fleeting thought now, though.

FracturedSoul posted 2/13/2014 09:11 AM

Thank you for the response everyone...at least I know this is 'normal' for us BS's.
Dreamland...I have often wondered about the loce vs in love thing...I relate to your statement today...feel like I've lost the loving feeling :(

deena04 posted 2/13/2014 10:06 AM

Normal for me, too. I go back and forth sometimes without a fight, just with my own thoughts.

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