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User Topic: when will i ever feel better
♀ 41764
Member # 41764
Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i moved back in with my WS end of january 2014. i know the rollercoaster lasts a while, i know we all want to get off and have to just work through it. when will i ever feel better? i feel like i am forcing myself to be affectionate. i keep telling myself to be positive and really give it 100% this time. i found out in april, back then i was trying but he wasnt - moved out in august - he was trying and i wasnt. now we are both giving it 100%. we have put ourselves in a bubble and are trying to just focus on our marriage and getting rid of any negative influences. i just dont know whats right. i am trying so hard to be positive and make it work. i just dont know if it is the right thing

Me: BS, 30
Him: WS, 30
D-Day: April 2013 (about 5 years of cheating with multiple OW)
2 or 3? false R.
DIVORCED! 07/2014!!

Posts: 26 | Registered: Dec 2013
♀ 41741
Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I could answer that with a definite time, but I really can't answer it. I hope for all the best for you both.

Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me, D
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr

Posts: 1919 | Registered: Dec 2013
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