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User Topic: when will i ever feel better
♀ 41764
Member # 41764
Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i moved back in with my WS end of january 2014. i know the rollercoaster lasts a while, i know we all want to get off and have to just work through it. when will i ever feel better? i feel like i am forcing myself to be affectionate. i keep telling myself to be positive and really give it 100% this time. i found out in april, back then i was trying but he wasnt - moved out in august - he was trying and i wasnt. now we are both giving it 100%. we have put ourselves in a bubble and are trying to just focus on our marriage and getting rid of any negative influences. i just dont know whats right. i am trying so hard to be positive and make it work. i just dont know if it is the right thing

Me: BS, 30
Him: WS, 30
D-Day: April 2013 (about 5 years of cheating with multiple OW)
2 or 3? false R.
DIVORCED! 07/2014!!

Posts: 26 | Registered: Dec 2013
♀ 41741
Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I could answer that with a definite time, but I really can't answer it. I hope for all the best for you both.

Me FBS around 40
Him FWS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr

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