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User Topic: V Day, change of heart
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could feel myself sinking into a pretty bad mood these last few days, dreading Valentine's Day, getting sad and mad all over again and feeling incredibly lonely. I take my boys to school tomorrow morning, and POS is picking them up and keeping them until Saturday, so I've been sad I won't even have them on Valentine's Day. I was texting with my friend today, and I asked what he's doing tomorrow. I told him I was planning to gather some weapons and destroy as many Valentine's Day displays as I could find.

I haven't been feeling too great either, so my mom offered to take the boys out to get some extra supplies for the V-Day cards they are making for their classmates. And what do they come home with? DS10 walks in with white roses with a styrofoam pink heart in the middle and hands it to me with a kiss. And the cutest card. And then DS6 walks in with a heart balloon that says Happy Valentine's Day on it (DS6 loves balloons). My cold, dead, shell of a heart just melted with love. I will have to make some new plans for tomorrow. I don't feel like destroying anything anymore

xBW~ 36
Two DS~ 8 and 11

Posts: 2886 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww, what a great surprise!

That is awesome. So happy for you!

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

Posts: 1588 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

Posts: 32559 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww! That just made me cry!
There! Proof that you are a great mom and so loved by your boys!

What more could a girl want?
Have a great day tomorrow!

~~When people show you who they are believe them ~~ Maya Angelou

Me -BS (48)
Him - Who cares?
DS 20, DD 16
Divorced 8/2015

Posts: 713 | Registered: Jan 2013
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1151 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

they luvs you! <3

BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.

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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your mom is pretty awesome, too!

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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