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User Topic: V Day, change of heart
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could feel myself sinking into a pretty bad mood these last few days, dreading Valentine's Day, getting sad and mad all over again and feeling incredibly lonely. I take my boys to school tomorrow morning, and POS is picking them up and keeping them until Saturday, so I've been sad I won't even have them on Valentine's Day. I was texting with my friend today, and I asked what he's doing tomorrow. I told him I was planning to gather some weapons and destroy as many Valentine's Day displays as I could find.

I haven't been feeling too great either, so my mom offered to take the boys out to get some extra supplies for the V-Day cards they are making for their classmates. And what do they come home with? DS10 walks in with white roses with a styrofoam pink heart in the middle and hands it to me with a kiss. And the cutest card. And then DS6 walks in with a heart balloon that says Happy Valentine's Day on it (DS6 loves balloons). My cold, dead, shell of a heart just melted with love. I will have to make some new plans for tomorrow. I don't feel like destroying anything anymore

xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww, what a great surprise!

That is awesome. So happy for you!

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

Posts: 1857 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww! That just made me cry!
There! Proof that you are a great mom and so loved by your boys!

What more could a girl want?
Have a great day tomorrow!

~~When people show you who they are believe them ~~ Maya Angelou

Me -BS (49)

DS 21, DD 17
Divorced 8/2015

Posts: 869 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: SE PA
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1155 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, February 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

they luvs you! <3

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your mom is pretty awesome, too!

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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