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V Day, change of heart

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 ButterflyGirl (original poster member #38377) posted at 1:40 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

I could feel myself sinking into a pretty bad mood these last few days, dreading Valentine's Day, getting sad and mad all over again and feeling incredibly lonely. I take my boys to school tomorrow morning, and POS is picking them up and keeping them until Saturday, so I've been sad I won't even have them on Valentine's Day. I was texting with my friend today, and I asked what he's doing tomorrow. I told him I was planning to gather some weapons and destroy as many Valentine's Day displays as I could find.

I haven't been feeling too great either, so my mom offered to take the boys out to get some extra supplies for the V-Day cards they are making for their classmates. And what do they come home with? DS10 walks in with white roses with a styrofoam pink heart in the middle and hands it to me with a kiss. And the cutest card. And then DS6 walks in with a heart balloon that says Happy Valentine's Day on it (DS6 loves balloons). My cold, dead, shell of a heart just melted with love. I will have to make some new plans for tomorrow. I don't feel like destroying anything anymore

xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 1:42 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Awww, what a great surprise!

That is awesome. So happy for you!

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:53 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Awwwww!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 2:11 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Awww! That just made me cry!

There! Proof that you are a great mom and so loved by your boys!

What more could a girl want?

Have a great day tomorrow!

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kg201 ( member #40173) posted at 2:20 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Sweet.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 3:04 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

they luvs you! <3

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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Harriet ( member #34543) posted at 7:09 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Your mom is pretty awesome, too!

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

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