"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
Do what YOU want.
My dday was Feb 12. 2 days before Valentines Day. I was in shock. I sent him a dozen red roses - my usual to him.
Now I look back and think...WTF??? Even he was in disbelief.
I was just in shock.
Do what feels right to YOU.
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy