So…last night Wh and I had another one of those conversations where I had to set boundaries.
NO - you will not be leaving the elliptical here and coming over to exercise.
NO - you will not be having your visitation times with the kids at MY residence
NO - you will not be coming over to do yardwork or anything else at MY residence
Then he went to the, "Well, its YOUR CHOICE that it has to be this way.
Nekorb: You are causing me more pain than I've ever had in my entire life. Why would i want to spend time with you? Im in love with you. If I can't be with you, I don't want to be around you
WH: I hope that changes some day. I thought we could be friends.
Nekorb. My friends don't treat me like this. My friends don't cheat on me. My friends don't lie to me.
((WH visibly angered))
WH: So that's how it is?
WH: Well, thats your choice then.
Nekorb: I'm not the one that chose to leave the relationship
WH: I don't have a choice. I have to leave.
Nekorb: No you don't, you are choosing to.
WH: You don't know how I feel.
Then we had to be somewhere…this convo took place in a restaurant.
I was channeling y'all and trying to remember all the advice you've given me!
Whew. I felt like I had run a marathon after that and in reality it was only about a 10-15 minute conversation.
Although prior to that we were talking about things like what he furniture he is going to take - he doesn't want hardly anything… I asked him where he expected the kids to spend time with him if he has no furniture, he doesnt want to rent, wants to buy a house, but says "I wont have room for the kids in the beginning". I asked him where exactly he was moving to if he doesn't want to rent and doesn't think he will have room for the kids to visit. He didn't answer.
What the flying monkeys??