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Chippednotbroken posted 2/14/2014 07:18 AM

I filed and he was served Tuesday. He wants me to go to MC today. I feel like I'm still in crazy town. He just makes me angry. Why on earth would I want to go to MC? In my mind I haven't been married for a long time. He says he can't even think of dating. He had a LTA while I was pregnant.
Crazy town and he is the mayor.

devistatedmom posted 2/14/2014 15:09 PM

Ignore. Crickets. NC. Whatever you want to call it...NO WAY!!!

GabyBaby posted 2/14/2014 15:39 PM

Crickets.
He's nervous now that he's been served and is trying to hoover you back in.

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

dmari posted 2/14/2014 15:52 PM

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

Crickets ...

Chippednotbroken posted 2/14/2014 17:19 PM

Yeah you all will love this, I ended up going. It was his counselor who asked him why he had me there. Then proceeded to tell him to leave me alone, stop texting me and move on with his life. It was actually kind of nice. Don't think it worked but hey whatever.

devistatedmom posted 2/14/2014 17:23 PM

I hope it helped you feel better about your decision. Now, NC him. If his IC sees it and is saying it, he isn't doing the work he needs to do to be a proper husband to you.

Chippednotbroken posted 2/14/2014 18:01 PM

Yep right back to crickets. It was just nice to hear someone else tell him that there is no reason for me to be with him and that he needs to focus on himself and let me heal.
He of course texted me a few hours later that he has a gift for me so it seems he still isn't paying attention.

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