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Topic: He wants to go to MC- today

Chippednotbroken
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Posted: 7:18 AM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

I filed and he was served Tuesday. He wants me to go to MC today. I feel like I'm still in crazy town. He just makes me angry. Why on earth would I want to go to MC? In my mind I haven't been married for a long time. He says he can't even think of dating. He had a LTA while I was pregnant.
Crazy town and he is the mayor.

Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."

Posts: 587 | Registered: Aug 2013

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961

Posted: 3:09 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Ignore. Crickets. NC. Whatever you want to call it...NO WAY!!!

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5898 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

GabyBaby
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Member # 26928

Posted: 3:39 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Crickets.
He's nervous now that he's been served and is trying to hoover you back in.

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There

dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215

Posted: 3:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.

Crickets ...

I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 45, DD 21, DS 17
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Oct 2012

Chippednotbroken
♀ 40170
Member # 40170

Posted: 5:19 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Yeah you all will love this, I ended up going. It was his counselor who asked him why he had me there. Then proceeded to tell him to leave me alone, stop texting me and move on with his life. It was actually kind of nice. Don't think it worked but hey whatever.

Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."

Posts: 587 | Registered: Aug 2013

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961

Posted: 5:23 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

I hope it helped you feel better about your decision. Now, NC him. If his IC sees it and is saying it, he isn't doing the work he needs to do to be a proper husband to you.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5898 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

Chippednotbroken
♀ 40170
Member # 40170

Posted: 6:01 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Yep right back to crickets. It was just nice to hear someone else tell him that there is no reason for me to be with him and that he needs to focus on himself and let me heal.
He of course texted me a few hours later that he has a gift for me so it seems he still isn't paying attention.

Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."

Posts: 587 | Registered: Aug 2013

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