So, this is the best V-day I've had in a long time. No pressure to "perform". WW always "expected" V-day to be like the movies. I hate the commercialization of today. I loved her 365 days a year, not just February 14. The flowers I sent to her work or brought home to her every month or so meant just as much as the roses I had to pay triple for on February 14. But, I did like to make her happy, and I gladly did it.
Anyway, this year there are no worries about if the flowers are delivered to work, if the card says the right thing, if the reservation was at the right restaurant, etc. Absolutely ZERO stress related to valentines, and I LIKE it!
So, here's me raising a glass to all of you in the same boat! Cheers!
its a perfectly lovely thing to be happy about. its always much nicer to get flowers when they aren't expected. enjoy the unholiday!
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
I am free.
I don't have to give anyone a blow job today or tonight, and THAT is the best part of being divorced today
I'm in the just found out stage, and have the same sentiment that I have absolutely NO pressure to do anything... feels great!
I just want to say kudos to you guys that show(ed) your love and affection for your women all 365 1/4 days of the year, not just one. It gives me hope that my DD15 may find a man like that when she is older, because men raise boys to be like them. I hope she finds a boy raised by a considerate man.
Happy UnValentines Everyone!