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cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 14:19 PM

I was going through deleting unnecessary documents off my laptop and I stumbled across the convo between WH and COW the day before I caught them cybersexing or whatever. I totally forgot I had saved it! Even this conversation was very inappropriate but a lot of it didn't make sense. They are both somewhat not very good with words and he was so good at gaslighting I didn't realize how bad this was. I seriously think they were speaking in code or something.

*A few bits of info first. He explained "piece" meant bubblegum. He's sticking to that story. Sure. Also, the part about the shark was supposedly some video she shared on Facebook. The part "they do?" I guess he deleted the stuff before that and conveniently can't remember what they were talking about.*

WH: Thanks for the split (they sold a house together)
COW: oh sure $1.00 is your cut!
WH: lol teasing...
COW: oh no I'm gonna give you a cut...
WH: ohhh you are?? Lol
WH: sweet I can buy a piece of bubblegum now, everything is so expensive lol
COW: you just want a piece of something! Lol
*The above was through email. Then they went to Facebook.*
COW: you want a piece lol
WH: heck yea I do!!! Lol
COW: board
WH: me too
COW: nobody how about that video of great whites gobbling up that guy?
WH: yea I know....lol off subject for a sec I bet you want a piece! Lol shark bait too
COW: shark? Yes now! Bring it on!
WH: yep I can! Lol you'd go by the water?? Lol not me
COW: chicken
WH: lol me? No way!
WH: they do? Girls know everything???
COW: we always know
WH: hmmmmm....that's a thought
COW: you know that already
WH: how would I know? Nope I don't
COW: yes you do
WH: uhhhh no I don't how so?
COW: I don't know your not your average guy you have feelings. Your not a dick like most.
WH: well I understand. Even though I'm 34 I have some sense...not that young lol
COW: yes you have lots
WH: well like I said you can talk to me about anything...and I mean anything lol
COW: you can talk to me also
WH: well good we are on that level

Nice huh? Old stuff but I thought it'd be fun to see what you all thought.

Pass posted 2/14/2014 14:26 PM

What are they? Fucking twelve years old? This sounds like a couple giggly pre-teens who are afraid to do more than just skirt around the subject of sex, until they can get together and grope.

If I'm reading this properly - and I'm willing to admit that I may not be - this sounds like early days into things, when they were just starting to test the waters for hooking up. But the whole shark thing is totally lost on me, so who the hell knows?

cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 14:30 PM

I know right? I believed it was testing but like you the shark thing made no sense to me either.

tushnurse posted 2/14/2014 14:45 PM

Wow couple of Rhodes scholars there. The proof?

Board - were they going to build something?

This is a huge pet peeve of mine. Semi-literate people abusing our language. Or did they mean they were Dumb as a .....?

JanaGreen posted 2/14/2014 14:46 PM

Well, I think they were talking about gum at first but then transitioned into being clever and talking about a piece of ass.

the shark things, I don't know. Um, if it's not about an actual swimming shark, I'm guessing it's porn where two chicks (great whites?) were "gobbling" up (giving oral sex) to a guy and the "shark bait" is his junk. That might be a stretch though.

Isn't it cringeworthy how idiotic their conversations are?

cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 14:52 PM

Jana- I wondered the same thing! Hmmm...could be a stretch but the way he said shark bait....I do know they talked about porn a few times because apparently someone viewed it up there. I also know she sent him images but I can't see of what. It shows the images as no longer available.

cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 14:54 PM

I wonder what "you'd go by the water" meant. I guess it would make sense if that's what they were talking about and he offered her shark bait. But then he says he wouldn't go by the water. I think the "girls know everything" is about me possibly finding out or something. I dunno...

BeyondBreaking posted 2/14/2014 15:11 PM

*barf*

lynnm1947 posted 2/14/2014 15:16 PM

I hope he bought her a spelling book for Valentine's Day!

outside4me posted 2/14/2014 15:17 PM

Cringeworthy dialogue to be sure. My opinion is the shark thing is about PA, and the "don't go near the water' is sounding each other out on their willingness to PA. Hence the whole, girls always know (men think with their penis without regard to consequence), but him "not being a dick like most men he has feelings" is a compliment to him and testing his willingness to PA. Maybe a test to see if he actually has love for her and not just a desire to PA. Seriously whacked out no matter how you slice it. Good luck to you!

cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 15:44 PM

lynnm1947- Luckily they are no longer in contact. He cut off all contact in October FINALLY and quit working for the same company as her in November. This conversation was back in July.


outside4me- You could be right. It definitely doesn't make sense the way it is so it has to be something they talked about before or something. I think he was deleting as he was going too. I had been alerted by other conversations earlier so I was sort of watching that day but on and off. The next day I logged into his facebook and stayed logged in all day which is how I was able to catch them cybersexing. I even took screen shots. He still can't "remember" what this conversation meant. Such bullshit.

[This message edited by cl131716 at 3:45 PM, February 14th (Friday)]

Ostrich80 posted 2/14/2014 16:03 PM

Well we all know what the piece means..started out gum then , omg you said piece haha like piece of ass.. the shark thing prob has deleted sections but testing waters for interest in something more...that's my take. I wonder if they are at all embarrassed by how immature this looks...

turtle72 posted 2/14/2014 16:16 PM

Oh my.

To me it reads he kept pushing for sexual innuendo and she was going along, but pushing for more of a relationship - hence the:

"COW: I don't know your not your average guy you have feelings. Your not a dick like most.
WH: well I understand. Even though I'm 34 I have some sense...not that young lol
COW: yes you have lots
WH: well like I said you can talk to me about anything...and I mean anything lol
COW: you can talk to me also
WH: well good we are on that level

He said she could "talk to him about anything" - he meant sex.

She said "you can talk to me also" - she meant "I will take any response as love. I will put out and it will be the best sex you ever had and, my self esteem issues will be solved and you will love me and want babies"

cl131716 posted 2/14/2014 16:26 PM

He said she could "talk to him about anything" - he meant sex.

She said "you can talk to me also" - she meant "I will take any response as love. I will put out and it will be the best sex you ever had and, my self esteem issues will be solved and you will love me and want babies"

After the whole NC fiasco it was very obvious she was very into him. I could tell from many of their conversations that she wanted him, though she later denied it. She said many times "cl131716 is a lucky girl". Here is the kicker....this woman was 15-20 years older than my WH. She was married and had been for 24 years. She claimed her husband was mean to her and cheating on her. That was one thing she would talk to my WH about many times.

It's interesting you said he was interested in sex. He claims he never had any intentions to actually have sex, he just liked the attention she gave him. Now looking back on this conversation and thinking about other things he said to her....I think you may be right.

Uhtred posted 2/14/2014 16:31 PM

All I could make was that your husband has no sense at all.

SisterMilkshake posted 2/14/2014 16:31 PM

They are flirting. And not very well.

turtle72 posted 2/14/2014 17:59 PM

He may truly not have intended to have sex, but his banter was sexual, no question there.

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