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StillLivin posted 2/14/2014 16:54 PM

My friend trolled. I've asked her not to and not to tell me about it. She has respected my wishes until today.
I posted back in November that his illegitimate child was born. Found out it was all a hoax to hurt me.
My friend was looking at her FB and told me that poor little baby that ended up being her nephew and NOT my STBXH's child died.
How sad. I wish I my friend hadn't told me.
I know logically that Shrek had nothing to do with the child passing. Just seems like if the poor little thing hadn't been related to a whore and she hadn't used him for her own dirty deeds, maybe he would be around.
I'm Hispanic, we are superstitious.
I'm going to say a few prayers for the baby. Poor little thing.

Stillstings posted 2/14/2014 17:24 PM

I'm so sorry. The level of cruelty is unimaginable sometimes.

LosferWords posted 2/14/2014 17:30 PM

(((StillLivin)))

Sending good thoughts to the family of that child.

whiteflower99 posted 2/14/2014 18:02 PM

(((((StillLiving))))))
I remember that and feeling so bad for you.
This is NOT YOUR FAULT. It has NOTHING less than nothing to do with you.

BAB61 posted 2/14/2014 20:22 PM

There is a special place in Hell for people like that ... smh ...

sinsof thefather posted 2/15/2014 02:48 AM

That hoax was a truly cruel trick for them to play on you, and to think that the poor little boy that they used to do it has now died makes me want to cry. What a horrible story all round no wonder it's upset you. That poor little baby. I'm joining you in sending out some prayers for that little boy and his real parents.

Ostrich80 posted 2/15/2014 03:21 AM

Good Lord, the cruelty of some people. How sad this story is.

StillLivin posted 2/15/2014 09:19 AM

When my friend called me yesterday, I was still at work. I called her back when I got off. I explained how hearing anything to do with my STBXH only set me back. She understood and told me the only reason she told me was because I deserved to know what a horrible person Shrek was. I didn't understand. She said how could she use her deceased newborn infant's picture for that petty shit. I was speechless. I misunderstood her originally. That poor little baby didn't pass recently. He had passed away before Shrek ever came to our state to live w my H.
Shocked doesn't even describe it. I was so upset last night. YAY, Happy St. Valentine's Day to me, my STBXH is a monster now...or rather he has been for sometime, but I got to find out just how much of a monster he and his nasty whore really are. Wtf is wrong with these people? Who the hell did we really marry? Did they change that drastically over the years? Wtf???

[This message edited by StillLivin at 9:19 AM, February 15th (Saturday)]

1owner posted 2/15/2014 10:14 AM

Beyond cruel...that's insane. In spite of what we believed for so long, we don't really know them after all. I'm sorry for you.

cantgetup posted 2/15/2014 10:48 AM

I'm floored by what so many of us have to endure and face all manifested by infidelity. I'm so sorry. Could your friend have told you in case you would have eventually found out about this and she wanted to be the bearer of bad news as a friend? I hope it was with good intentions.

sinsof thefather posted 2/15/2014 11:19 AM

...she told me was because I deserved to know what a horrible person Shrek was. I didn't understand. She said how could she use her deceased newborn infant's picture for that petty shit. I was speechless. I misunderstood her originally. That poor little baby didn't pass recently. He had passed away before Shrek ever came to our state to live w my H.
Shocked doesn't even describe it.
Oh my God. That's even worse! That he had already died when she chose to use his picture for a scam - just to upset you? What the hell is wrong with her? (and him if he knew)

purplejacket4 posted 2/15/2014 11:47 AM

That is beyond sick.

StillLivin posted 2/15/2014 12:13 PM

My friend went through something similar years ago. Her now ex is a sociopath. She was much younger and had less coping skills back then. She has been worried about me. She fears my STBXH is hoovering me, which he is trying but I'm just done with him, she just doesn't want me to make the same mistake of taking him back again over and over again like she did. I believe her. She loves me dearly. She told me she wrestled with whether telling me or not. I'm glad I know. Though it upset me yesterday, this is something I needed to know. Shrek called me and threatened me many months ago when my WS dumped her for the second time for R. I didn't take her serious because she was on the East coast. I also assumed she was an idiot. Now I see she is more than stupid, she is tapped in the brain. My friend telling me warned me of someone who isn't playing with a full deck upstairs.
I usually keep my weapons loaded at all times, but now I will remain extra diligent.

[This message edited by StillLivin at 12:13 PM, February 15th (Saturday)]

StillLivin posted 2/15/2014 12:16 PM

Only a truly sick person does this. And only a sicker person stays with someone else who he sees is this sick.
Sometimes it's the stupid people that you have to watch for. They can be much more dangerous if they are crazy too.

[This message edited by StillLivin at 12:18 PM, February 15th (Saturday)]

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