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Topic: The best part of VD is I got my date!

dmari
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Member # 37215

Posted: 6:48 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Court date, that is!!

One minute before entering my therapist office, I check my email on my phone. I read an email from my attorney that said our court date is on May 29!! I walked into her office and screamed with relief and joy that it will soon be officially over.

The timing (although it took long enough) is perfect. It's after my spring semester and before my birthday in June! I am so grateful and excited.

Emotionally I am done done done done done done with stbx. The court will hopefully enforce financial obligations regarding the kids. This is the part I am looking forward to. I need him to be financially accountable to the kids and if he is not, then at least I can follow with contempt.

This is a true gift of love to myself ~ my future, my life, my freedom!

Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2460 | Registered: Oct 2012

persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468

Posted: 6:51 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Yay!!!!

What a great Vday present!!!

Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

Posts: 4837 | Registered: Mar 2011

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 6:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28301 | Registered: Aug 2011

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961

Posted: 7:48 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Happy for you Dmari!!

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5739 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

Sparkles
♀ 39901
Member # 39901

Posted: 7:55 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

That's good news! It's a nice feeling when you take a step forward.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: NW

jackie89
♀ 38271
Member # 38271

Posted: 8:06 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

Soo jealous!

Can't wait until this day comes!

I edit - because I hate misspellings or grammar mistakes.

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~

Posts: 588 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania

Chippednotbroken
♀ 40170
Member # 40170

Posted: 8:11 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014

April14th for me, although if he won't agree to something's I guess it could take longer.

Me 33 (former BS)
Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids

Posts: 373 | Registered: Aug 2013

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