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143ANF posted 2/14/2014 20:43 PM

Been having major anxiety, things weren't lining up.

Found the proof I needed.

I. Am. Done.

[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:53 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]

Raven96 posted 2/14/2014 20:45 PM

Ugh. I am so sorry. Wishing you strength for what's ahead.

ETA: I just read your profile. Unbelievable! He is not worthy of you, and I just cannot believe he did this again.

(((Hugs)))

[This message edited by Raven96 at 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday)]

Williesmom posted 2/14/2014 20:50 PM

I'm so sorry.

jo2love posted 2/14/2014 20:52 PM

(((143)))

MissesJai posted 2/14/2014 20:57 PM

ugh... (((143)))

Nature_Girl posted 2/14/2014 20:58 PM

I'm so sorry.

sad12008 posted 2/14/2014 21:16 PM

I'm really sorry about this turn of events, 143ANF. It really sucks.

A part of me also feels thankful that you got the proof. It hurts like hell, but it gives a definitive answer...and that is a blessing.

(((((143ANF)))))

nowiknow23 posted 2/14/2014 21:17 PM

((((143ANF)))) Sending you strength, honey.

I think I can posted 2/14/2014 21:18 PM

I hope this solid proof brings you peace. Stay strong. ((143ANF))

Jrazz posted 2/14/2014 21:20 PM

I'm so sorry. (((143ANF)))

risingfromashes posted 2/14/2014 21:22 PM

I used to live with an uneasy feeling after DD. Always on edge. When I found the proof there was almost a sense of relief. I did not know what the future would hold only that he was soooo not a part of it.

Sad but empowering.

Must Survive posted 2/14/2014 21:23 PM

(((143ANF)))

Take care of yourself.

143ANF posted 2/14/2014 21:42 PM

Thank you everyone.

The anxiety is gone. I know now what path to take.

I was in total shock at first but now, I feel relieved.

It's a damn shame.

I can walk away knowing that I have gone above and beyond what anyone could have expected from me. I gave him chance after chance, year after year.

I wanted to believe him so badly but there was a part of me that this time around kept everything separate. The only thing that is joint is the new car he "bought" me but I'll take care of that when the bank is open.

I'm free.

[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:54 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]

norabird posted 2/14/2014 23:55 PM

It is sad to have to be grateful for this type of pain, yet it's so much better to know. I hope your clarity gives you strength.

On (one day) to new beginnings. You deserve a great deal more and you will get it.

sinsof thefather posted 2/15/2014 02:57 AM

(((143ANF)))

Ostrich80 posted 2/15/2014 03:18 AM

I'm so sorry. Sending you.peace and clarity to get through this new journey.