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Topic: Found the proof
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143ANF
♀ 22730
Member # 22730 |  Posted: 8:43 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 |     |
Been having major anxiety, things weren't lining up.
Found the proof I needed.
I. Am. Done. [This message edited by 143ANF at 12:53 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]
I've gotten off the crazy train and I'm loving living life.
Posts: 1409 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Florida |
Raven96
♀ 40298
Member # 40298 | | Posted: 8:45 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
Ugh. I am so sorry. Wishing you strength for what's ahead. 
ETA: I just read your profile. Unbelievable! He is not worthy of you, and I just cannot believe he did this again.
(((Hugs))) [This message edited by Raven96 at 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday)]
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7927 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 8:52 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((143)))
Posts: 37405 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
MissesJai
♀ 24849
Member # 24849 | | Posted: 8:57 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
ugh... (((143)))
FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson
Posts: 6056 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal..... |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 8:58 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10254 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
sad12008
♀ 18179
Member # 18179 | | Posted: 9:16 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm really sorry about this turn of events, 143ANF. It really sucks.
A part of me also feels thankful that you got the proof. It hurts like hell, but it gives a definitive answer...and that is a blessing.
(((((143ANF)))))
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 3920 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:17 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
((((143ANF)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman
Posts: 26959 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
I think I can
♀ 17756
Member # 17756 | | Posted: 9:18 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I hope this solid proof brings you peace. Stay strong. ((143ANF))
I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.
Posts: 8873 | Registered: Jan 2008 |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 9:20 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry.  (((143ANF)))
"We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
Posts: 19062 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903 | | Posted: 9:22 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
I used to live with an uneasy feeling after DD. Always on edge. When I found the proof there was almost a sense of relief. I did not know what the future would hold only that he was soooo not a part of it.
Sad but empowering.
There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
Posts: 1759 | Registered: Mar 2004 |
Must Survive
♀ 34533
Member # 34533 | | Posted: 9:23 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((143ANF)))
Take care of yourself.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Posts: 841 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive |
143ANF
♀ 22730
Member # 22730 | | Posted: 9:42 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
Thank you everyone.
The anxiety is gone. I know now what path to take.
I was in total shock at first but now, I feel relieved.
It's a damn shame.
I can walk away knowing that I have gone above and beyond what anyone could have expected from me. I gave him chance after chance, year after year.
I wanted to believe him so badly but there was a part of me that this time around kept everything separate. The only thing that is joint is the new car he "bought" me but I'll take care of that when the bank is open.
I'm free. [This message edited by 143ANF at 12:54 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]
I've gotten off the crazy train and I'm loving living life.
Posts: 1409 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Florida |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 11:55 PM, February 14th (Friday), 2014 | |
It is sad to have to be grateful for this type of pain, yet it's so much better to know. I hope your clarity gives you strength.
On (one day) to new beginnings. You deserve a great deal more and you will get it.
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4261 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
sinsof thefather
♀ 29295
Member # 29295 | | Posted: 2:57 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((143ANF)))
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Posts: 1921 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK |
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827 | | Posted: 3:18 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry. Sending you.peace and clarity to get through this new journey.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Posts: 5324 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest |
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