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143ANF (original poster member #22730) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Been having major anxiety, things weren't lining up.
Found the proof I needed.
I. Am. Done.
[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:53 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]
Me: BS 49
FWXH 45
Divorced 05/20/2010
Last D-Day and the end 09/29/2015
Raven96 ( member #40298) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Ugh. I am so sorry. Wishing you strength for what's ahead. 
ETA: I just read your profile. Unbelievable! He is not worthy of you, and I just cannot believe he did this again.
(((Hugs)))
[This message edited by Raven96 at 8:50 PM, February 14th (Friday)]
Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:50 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:52 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 2:57 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 2:58 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 3:16 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I'm really sorry about this turn of events, 143ANF. It really sucks.
A part of me also feels thankful that you got the proof. It hurts like hell, but it gives a definitive answer...and that is a blessing.
(((((143ANF)))))
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:17 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
((((143ANF)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
I think I can ( member #17756) posted at 3:18 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I hope this solid proof brings you peace. Stay strong. ((143ANF))
I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:20 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I'm so sorry. 
(((143ANF)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 3:22 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I used to live with an uneasy feeling after DD. Always on edge. When I found the proof there was almost a sense of relief. I did not know what the future would hold only that he was soooo not a part of it.
Sad but empowering.
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 3:23 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
(((143ANF)))
Take care of yourself.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
143ANF (original poster member #22730) posted at 3:42 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Thank you everyone.
The anxiety is gone. I know now what path to take.
I was in total shock at first but now, I feel relieved.
It's a damn shame.
I can walk away knowing that I have gone above and beyond what anyone could have expected from me. I gave him chance after chance, year after year.
I wanted to believe him so badly but there was a part of me that this time around kept everything separate. The only thing that is joint is the new car he "bought" me but I'll take care of that when the bank is open.
I'm free.
[This message edited by 143ANF at 12:54 AM, February 15th, 2014 (Saturday)]
Me: BS 49
FWXH 45
Divorced 05/20/2010
Last D-Day and the end 09/29/2015
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:55 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
It is sad to have to be grateful for this type of pain, yet it's so much better to know. I hope your clarity gives you strength.
On (one day) to new beginnings. You deserve a great deal more and you will get it.
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 8:57 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 9:18 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I'm so sorry. Sending you.peace and clarity to get through this new journey.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
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