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Topic: brainwashed!

notmychoice
♀ 40912
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Posted: 8:30 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

My stbx sent me flowers at work. I was not impressed. It made me feel very awkward. I texted him to say not necessary and he replied that he thinks of me and feels so bad how much pain he put me thru and how he was brain washed. I asked 'by who' and he replied 'her'. really. can he not take any responsibility for his actions! this makes me so mad and shows me that he still doesn't get it!

Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone

nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306

Posted: 8:52 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

Blame shifting is brutal, isn't it?

I'm sorry.

Next time...crickets....

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5578 | Registered: Aug 2013

Ashland13
♀ 38378
Member # 38378

Posted: 9:41 AM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

It sounds like a pity search. And attention seek.

And maybe like he wants something. Possibly forgiveness.

Crickets are good. Also helps put boundaries back up.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

Posts: 3031 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England

Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554

Posted: 5:05 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

Well, I suppose if he honestly thinks of his dick as his second head, then sure, yeah, maybe her mouth qualifies as a "brain wash".

I hate that they think we are so stupid.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA

Gemini71
♀ 40115
Member # 40115

Posted: 5:09 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

You deserve someone with an actual brain and will of their own. Not someone who thinks with his dick.

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3388 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA

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