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notmychoice (original poster new member #40912) posted at 2:30 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
My stbx sent me flowers at work. I was not impressed. It made me feel very awkward. I texted him to say not necessary and he replied that he thinks of me and feels so bad how much pain he put me thru and how he was brain washed. I asked 'by who' and he replied 'her'. really. can he not take any responsibility for his actions! this makes me so mad and shows me that he still doesn't get it! 
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 2:52 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Blame shifting is brutal, isn't it?
I'm sorry.
Next time...crickets....
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 3:41 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
It sounds like a pity search. And attention seek.
And maybe like he wants something. Possibly forgiveness.
Crickets are good. Also helps put boundaries back up.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 11:05 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Well, I suppose if he honestly thinks of his dick as his second head, then sure, yeah, maybe her mouth qualifies as a "brain wash".
I hate that they think we are so stupid.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 11:09 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
You deserve someone with an actual brain and will of their own. Not someone who thinks with his dick.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
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