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Topic: visiting family today

Midas
♂ 22832
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Posted: 5:05 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

My STBXWW is at home alone this weekend as my daughter and I have gone up to visit my family. (About 360 miles) This morning she sent me a message saying that she was called in to work and this afternoon she sent me a message saying she is on her way home. (Home, ha, not your home for much longer!) My response, crickets.

Midas
Me - 37 (BS)
Her - 36 (XW)

OM#1-4 Dday 2/17/2014 pre-marriage
OM#5 - Dday 2/17/2014 <new info>
OM#6 - Dday 4/30/2006
OM#7 - Dday 1/29/2014

DD - 6yo

Filed for D 2/10/2014
D 4/2014
False R 6/2014
ILYBINILWY 10/2014

Posts: 107 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Texas

nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306

Posted: 7:26 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

Good for you.

I know I'm going to have to learn to ignore those kinds of things, no matter how much I want to engage.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5592 | Registered: Aug 2013

justjim
♂ 41150
Member # 41150

Posted: 7:42 PM, February 15th (Saturday), 2014

Good job.

Seeing my STBX's name comes up on the caller ID whenever she called or sent a text always caused me a little spasm of pain until I changed her name in my phone to "CHEATING WHORE".

Now, unbeknownst to her, every time she contacts me, she reminds me of who she really is.

It helps me stay resolute.

Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013

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