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User Topic: He's such a bonehead sometimes....
Beemer
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Member # 38499
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(BS & WS replies are welcome)

So my WH and I were discussing what (if anything) we would be doing for Valentine's Day - yes we still celebrate, usually something small like lunch and a movie for instance.

He suggested seeing the new Colin Farrell romance movie that came out recently - when he suggested it I rolled my eyes and made a gagging motion like I was throwing up over the ridiculousness of romance movies...

And he says, "You used to love romantic movies, what happened to you? When did you get so cynical?"

I nearly lost my mind! Is he serious??? My kids were in the room so I didn't say anything - I just gave him "the look" - you know the one that says "YOU DID THIS DIP-SHIT! YOU MADE ME THIS WAY WHEN YOU DECIDED TO BANG YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND - ARE YOU F**KING KIDDING ME???"

They just really don't get it sometimes do they?


BW - Me (33)
FWH - Him (34)
Married - 8years
D-Day - 06/06/12
Status - Trying...things are good :)

Posts: 77 | Registered: Feb 2013
Hannah25
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Member # 42198
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, no they don't...


ME: 35
WBF: 44
Together 11 years
DDay: 1/12/14
DDay2: 3/28/14

Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Ohio
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Hannah.

Yup a bonehead.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
wanttogoforward
♀ 29912
Member # 29912
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H occasionally looks at me after I make a comment and says, "A little jaded are we?"
Yeah... jaded is the way a lot of us are now.

Posts: 1186 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
CantLoseHope
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Member # 42356
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its the "bitter woman" syndrome that a lot of people refer to it as. Of course things like that make us want to vomit now, but I feel eventually that bitterness wears off and we start to gain our faith back...... Although I've always had a barf reflex for movies, books, etc like that even before DDay...... I hate the psychological aspect of it all, it makes people think that there is the possibility of all rainbows and fireworks all the time... and thats simply not real life even without infidelity.


"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"


Posts: 172 | Registered: Feb 2014
Jls0320
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Member # 41192
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, my H also says things and when I roll my eyes or say thanks but no thanks, he seems to forget why I'd feel that way. Dummies


Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, sex addict, then 12 mos EA/2 mos PA with co-worker whore
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap PA began.
Separated, R during divor

Posts: 507 | Registered: Nov 2013
AML04
♀ 39682
Member # 39682
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, February 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously???

I used to be able to take all my WH's "jokes" like a champ. Now I find myself bristling a lot more often and he says I need to get my sense of humor back. Guess I just can't take a joke anymore because the joke was on me for way too long.

Sorry, feeling pissy tonight :(


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Topic Posts: 7

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